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flowspen -> RE: how to find my best mistress (9/25/2007 2:17:19 PM)
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what is a real Dominant Woman in your view? What do you offer Her? is She someone who only does your wish list of being sexually abused or is she more than that?
1st i agree with Candy Lover get over the shyness. i use to be shy but there is a saying around my parts.. "A closed mouth doesn't get fed" That means you have to ask in order to recieve. Even if You find a Mistress You must learn to ask. There have been times i wanted to speak freely but i was to shy to ask and You know what i never got to talk.. LOL So i learned to speak up and stop being shy.
2nd.. i think you need to define with yourself what you really want past a wish list or a few activities then decide what type of Mistress will suit your needs. Ask yourself how far are you willing to go, how much are you willing to give up to make this a reality. How committed are You to not only finding a Mistress but keeping her satisfied and happy. i have been looking for "The One" for over 10 years now it isn't easy at all.
Lastly get involved with web sites on BDSM, or networking sites like Yahoo 360 and if possible find local bdsm clubs and communities and join them. Networking works!
i wish you blessings
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