I have had the worse luck in my search for play partners. The second they hear the word poly or that I have a sub, they run at speeds that would make the Roadrunner envious. And thats without them even finding out what or how that relates to our relation (mine and the prospective subs)
I hear things like..
I am not bi (never said you had to be)
If I am not primary I am not interested. (I kind of like to think of my play partners as equals, but they dont wait to find that out)
I dont want to be part of a stable (never said I was starting one)
I dont want to deal with jelousy issues (understandable, but who said there would be any?)
and dozens more......
I have read ethical slut. I consider myself to be one. You know walk the walk, talk the talk, but I never seem to get past the word poly.
Sure I could not tell them, play for awhile and let the cat out of the bag later, but that seems more than a bit dishonest and I work very hard to not go there (dishonesty that is).
So help me out folks looking advice but also to understand why certain subs feel this way. I am not new to the bdsm lifestyle, and have had a few good poly relations ( and I would like to think my partners would agree with me). Just seem the majority of subs run at the word poly
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