I have had the worse luck in my search for play partners. The second they hear the word poly or that I have a sub, they run at speeds that would make the Roadrunner envious. And thats without them even finding out what or how that relates to our relation (mine and the prospective subs)
I have read ethical slut. I consider myself to be one. You know walk the walk, talk the talk, but I never seem to get past the word poly.
Some subs do not want to have to share their Dom. I mean, poly is like sexual orientation again. I mean, people who wants poly wants poly. People who don't want poly, do not want to share their dominant with other women. They want him and his full attention all to themselves.
It's that simple. If you are in a poly relationship, you have to share. You got to deal with another woman's presence. And you got to share, he has to divide time between both of you. That's awful!
A man only has one dick! The chances of one dick plunging into two vaginas or more at the same time, I don't know, you need a split dick! Not great for sharing seriously! Gotta take turns for his attention. And then worst of all, if he is only a one time cummer for that night. You're screwed. If you aren't the first priority.
< Message edited by Greta75 -- 8/18/2016 2:44:47 AM >