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tinkJH -> RE: Conflicting emotions (7/26/2005 5:40:30 AM)
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ORIGINAL: MasterBecker
I don't think I do pinkpleasures.
In my mind I have always pictured the woman coming to me with her suit cases in hand ready to move in. The thing is her suit cases and their contents are locked away in another room and she is given something to wear a tracksuit perhaps. In due time the contents of the cases would be inspected and items I chose her g-strings perhaps or maybe a nice pair of heels are returned to her. Other items that I wouldn't be wanting her to have or wear are not returned to her that could include a favorite but daggy sweater, nothing unusual but I wont be allowing underwear to be worn on a daily basis although I may allow it on certain special occasions. Should she be renting a unit the lease would be cancelled and things not wanted or needed by me would be sold .... I am a reasonable person if a certain object or piece of furninture was very special for example it once belonged to her grandmother who has since passed away she could ask for it to be kept.
One other thing again I feel I am a fair person and I have always thought to myself that my girl could earn certain pleasures or privliges etc. Not everything would be sold, some things would be kept but put away from her it could be a wall size family portrait. Should she prove her willingness to learn and to serve me after a period of time I would reward her by giving her the portrait back again. In this way I feel I will get more compliance without breaking the girls spirit.
I hope this answers your questions
So... You feel that you would need to bribe your slave? Your building a relationship with someone to the point where you move them in with you. Then, You sell off all their belonging (The clothing bit I doubt any sub or slave would mind at all.) without reguard to as what type of meaning they might have to the slave. If something has been from her dead grandmother she could ASK to keep it, but you make no guarentee as to if that would be allowed. You also say that if she tried to rent a storage unit to keep her stuff in, you would cancel it. Then, anything else important to her, such as a family portrait, you would keep and basically use as a bribe or she didn't get to see them.
None of that would go well with me, at all. Besides the fact that when I moved r/t with my Master I took 3 kids, a dog and a cat, and everything that I have that was ever my mothers or grandmothers. Since they are both deceased, each and every item I have that was their is special to me. Master might not like them, but he respects the amount of meaning and emotional ties I have to these items. They are safe and sound in the basement, should I ever have the need to go sit around them when I feel the need.
The problem with this, is what happens when the relationship fails? When she decides she has had enough, or you no longer continue with her and she is now left with nothing at all? If she decides she wants to leave, How does she leave? Will you pay to move her? buy her new stuff?
Also, How does she keep in touch with her family? Granted I'm not saying you couldn't find a girl who was distant and really didnt talk or keep in touch with her family or just didn't care. But, what about a girl that is close to her family?
Will she work? Can you support her if she is doesn't? All her medical care, dental care?
The only real problem with fantasies like this, as someone has said, is they seem to overlook the reality of life. You basically have to pick and choose and find what is best suited and close to what you want, then mold the rest the best you can. Otherwise.. you might as well just keep reading books, and hoping.
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