pixelslave
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Not everyone lets go at the same pace (for some it takes years), nor do they have the same outlets to work their feelings out about their past relationships. Many are not able to see their own contributions as to why things didn't work and would rather blame it all on the other, rather than learn from the experience and carry those lessons learned into their future relationships with new partners. I suggest you try to view it as a reflection on her and not on you. Best to ignore rather than fan the flames. IMO, by addressing them here in public, you only keep them burning hotter and add fuel to them from your side of the equation. If anything, perhaps the two of you need to discuss your differences in private and reach agreement not to discuss things about your past relationship in places such as this where it is hurtful to the other. - pixel Collared to Majik
< Message edited by pixelslave -- 9/29/2007 10:01:37 AM >
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Chivalry isn't dead! It's for those who have it in their hearts & are willing to be taught. It's a way of life, a code of honor; this one's armor still needs some polishing!
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