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RE: Question to those in a TPE relationship - 9/30/2007 4:23:26 AM   
blackrabbit73


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Status: offline 		hi everyone,

i'm in such a relationship also. although we do not really use all these labels like slave, tpe, master...but i'm his and we are happiest if the difference in power is a big as possible.
What i get out of this? i wonder why you ask this question? for me it's obvious, i feel in my heart that i'm most happy when i give up control. We're just who we are this way, i do not have to play games, it's very natural, in harmony with eatchother. there is no logical or fair reason for us to live like this: it's just what we want and who we are. i get peace out of it. and it is my way to love.

dorine


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RE: Question to those in a TPE relationship - 9/30/2007 4:40:48 AM   
subheart07


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Status: offline 		i get a feeling of being wanted and needed as only my Mistress could provide. i consider TSR more important than O/our marriage license.

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RE: Question to those in a TPE relationship - 9/30/2007 7:09:46 AM   
blackrabbit73


Posts: 7
Joined: 1/10/2006
Status: offline 		hi everyone,

i'm in such a relationship also. although we do not really use all these labels like slave, tpe, master...but i'm his and we are happiest if the difference in power is a big as possible.
What i get out of this? i wonder why you ask this question? for me it's obvious, i feel in my heart that i'm most happy when i give up control. We're just who we are this way, i do not have to play games, it's very natural, in harmony with eatchother. there is no logical or fair reason for us to live like this: it's just what we want and who we are. i get peace out of it. and it is my way to love.

dorine

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RE: Question to those in a TPE relationship - 9/30/2007 10:09:22 AM   
dasein42


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Status: offline 		My slaves emmie and mitda both write blogs that often concern what they get out of our relationship. They can be read at http://mypoly-bilife.blogspot.com/ and http://quietknowledge.wordpress.com/ ,

In fact, now that I visited emmie's blog in order to get the URL right, I find she's answered this very question on her blog. :).

Mitdasein
http://dominationandmastery.blogspot.com

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RE: Question to those in a TPE relationship - 9/30/2007 2:10:08 PM   
ImpGrrl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Tarwyn

"What does a sub/slave/property get out of the relationship?"



I get fulfillment out of being in the exact type of relationship with my owner that fits *us*.

It works perfectly for us both.  I think that's the best thing that anyone *can* get out of *any* relationship.

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RE: Question to those in a TPE relationship - 9/30/2007 2:14:07 PM   
TakenPet


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Status: offline 		I used to play both Magic and D&D, now I play WOW.  Anyway, what does the sub/slave/property get out of it?  You get the simple pleasure of pleasing your Dom/me or Master.  Knowing that they are pleased is where you generally derive your pleasure.  At least that is where I get mine.  When Master is happy, I am happy.  Thats me though, that is how I see it.  We share, he will please me at his leisure, as a reward, because I was good, because I was very good at one particular aspect of something, but I enjoy pleasing him and seeing him happy makes me happy.  When I am unhappy with something, Master wants to know, and we will discuss it and try to find a way to "fix" it.
All the best
tp

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RE: Question to those in a TPE relationship - 9/30/2007 6:02:03 PM   
Archer


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Joined: 3/11/2005
Status: offline 		Perhaps a bit of reading actual in text books may help.
The Complete Slave, Jack Rinella
SlaveCraft,  Guy Baldwin
Becomming a Slave, Jack Rinella
To Love to Serve to Obey Diary of an Old Guard Slave, Viola Johnson

Alot of good stuff in just those 4 books for both sides of the /.



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RE: Question to those in a TPE relationship - 9/30/2007 6:16:35 PM   
Obsidiansnamaste


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Status: offline 		Greetings,
 
i gain fulfillment.
 

What brings me fulfillment: Serving Him, Being in a dynamic where i do not need to maintain control in order to protect myself, but instead to relinquish all control in absolute trust and devotion.  Becoming the expression and manifestation of His will and desires. Watching the unfurling of my truest core self under Him.  Seeing that for every good thing in me there is always more because He will always push me to be better, to go further, and by such pushing just as a forced plant i blossom and bloom greater than i could without it.  There is a song and part of the lyrics say "i'm a movement by myself, but i'm a force when we're together...i'm good all by myself, but You make me better" that's how i feel. i know my worth, i know my value and yet i am so much MORE under His hand.  For me, if i could stop things if i could determine when and how and to what degree...then its not real. Its a role i'm playing and as long as He stays in line then i'm good...i didn't want that. i wanted the freedom of knowing that it's not up to me. i also wanted to give it to Him...to know that He can have things anyway He wants them and i'll rise to meet Him. 

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RE: Question to those in a TPE relationship - 9/30/2007 6:24:18 PM   
honestsub4real


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Status: offline 		To the OP: A TPE relationship is what the two of you make it in my opinion.  It can be 24/7 but also be discreet when needed but that is up to you and your partner:)

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RE: Question to those in a TPE relationship - 9/30/2007 6:27:33 PM   
amiciaN


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Obsidiansnamaste

Greetings,
 
i gain fulfillment.
 

What brings me fulfillment: Serving Him, Being in a dynamic where i do not need to maintain control in order to protect myself, but instead to relinquish all control in absolute trust and devotion.  Becoming the expression and manifestation of His will and desires. Watching the unfurling of my truest core self under Him.  Seeing that for every good thing in me there is always more because He will always push me to be better, to go further, and by such pushing just as a forced plant i blossom and bloom greater than i could without it.  There is a song and part of the lyrics say "i'm a movement by myself, but i'm a force when we're together...i'm good all by myself, but You make me better" that's how i feel. i know my worth, i know my value and yet i am so much MORE under His hand.  For me, if i could stop things if i could determine when and how and to what degree...then its not real. Its a role i'm playing and as long as He stays in line then i'm good...i didn't want that. i wanted the freedom of knowing that it's not up to me. i also wanted to give it to Him...to know that He can have things anyway He wants them and i'll rise to meet Him. 


What a beautiful response!


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RE: Question to those in a TPE relationship - 9/30/2007 6:37:11 PM   
HouseBetwnWorlds


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Status: offline 		For me all my life I knew I was born to serve only one person. LOL I know I know we all talk about "the one" But I knew mine existed. To everyone else I could never submit to, to Dylan.............it was not a case of I wanted or needed to....I had to.

What I recieve is fulfillment, he knows my mind better then I do, and has brought out in me things I never knew existed. I am not talking just sex here, but my desire to own my own business, to go to college, and to now be a Mistress. I rule by his side now and help him now make his dreams reality too.

We have been together for six years now, through thick and thin. To this day I serve through strength and while I am now a Mistress and no longer a slave what we have is still intoxicating. If you need an analogy of how we work together think of the military with the commanding officer of the unit and his second in command.

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RE: Question to those in a TPE relationship - 9/30/2007 10:01:15 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		I'd hope it's the same thing everyone gets in being in a personal relationship- fulfillment of self.

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