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ORIGINAL: janussearching

I believe that in a natural order, a woman's place is to obey, to be disciplined and also to be prized and protected, but that in our society where we live in contrast to so many natural laws ( flying, extesive machine use, massive building etc. this natural maxim is also brought into question as to whether is can always be followed, and so the matter of personal choice of whom is to obey, and under what circumstances, arises out of necessity.

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ORIGINAL: sub4hire

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I'm not saying I beleive this, just curious what the female subs/slaves here think. Is submission a choice for the individual or do any females here think that it's a woman's place to obey? That all women should obey?

Again, not saying I think this, just curious what the women subs/slaves on here think....

I dare you to post this question on the "Ask a Mistress" forum.

I don't feel it is a females place to obey. I am female. I am a submissive to my dominant. Yet, many obey me on a daily basis.
Most are men at that. Wonder what they would say if I asked the question of them?

I've always identified with a different time and place than the life we live today. Perhaps that is why I identify with being a submissive.

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ORIGINAL: subD4master

to answer your question....slaves are in a far better class than women... women come a dime - a - dozen. Slaves come one in a million. a slave knows how to respect a man whom is their Master.. women that are in the vanillia world will wipe their feet all over a man. only slaves obey ..

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ORIGINAL: lonewolf05

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ORIGINAL: plantlady64

Hello There,
What a male chauvinist pig statement you’ve made. I think there are more vanilla men who are the ones to obey their women. If you think about it, most family's I've known leave most of the household decisions to the ladies. In sales & telemarketing most men say, "You have to talk to my Wife". I think it's more the norm for the women to be in control of a relationship. In the dating world you don't have sex till she's ready. I haven't heard of any men being in control of when the first kiss, feel, or intercourse happens. In all I think it's mostly women taking care of the men like little boys, and deciding when things happen, what to eat, how to keep the house, writing out the bills and dealing with the finances, and what's best for day to day life.
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this is a turn-of-events, since "I"I was raised PATERNAL where the MEN ARE BOSS.
i am not familiar with wimpy boys in VANILLA that let the woman boss em around. in MY 3 marriages "I" was king of the roost!

wolfie

We may not have a choice in how we were raised we only have a choice as adults. I had it the same way in my household, and I am Domme, and you have chosen subsmission. See, we are living proof that it is possible to have totally different ideals than our parents...see, we are alike in some ways, smiles.....


< Message edited by kc692 -- 8/28/2005 11:13:28 PM >

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ORIGINAL: MRMojo


I beleive it IS a woman's place to obey. Of course, I am old fashioned I guess. I agree that they should obey but be provided for and protected. My ideal situation is very 1950s.

A woman's place is in the kitchen in her high heels cooking me dinner, yes, but she's going to be very protected, loved and provided for.