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eyesopened -> RE: Attire (8/15/2006 4:46:49 AM)
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The wonderful thing about my very first Dom was our very first meeting. i asked what i should wear. He wanted me to wear exactly what i would choose if i were not meeting a Dom but meeting any vanilla guy. He said He wanted to see me the way He would if He were a stranger on the street. He wanted to see what i would wear in vanilla circumstances, how i naturally hold myself, how i behave in the world outside of the "lifestyle". In other words, He wanted to see ME the way i am when not in a relationship. The fact that He wanted to know me as a person first and a slave second, impressed me. He could mold, shape, train, teach but He was first interested in the raw materials He would be working with. i have not met such and honest, open and self-confident Dom since. i miss Him.
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