|
amaidiamond -> RE: Tips and tricks (10/5/2007 10:44:27 AM)
|
Hmm I guess thats the difficult part, I'm not 100% sure, I know i'm enjoying what we're doing so far, I know I really like the idea of a lot of things. He really enjoys Humiliation which i am also into and he also has expressed an interest in puppy play, He is as experienced in submission as I am in Dominance so basically a little for play but not much for lifestyle, I do not want to have this just in the bedroon, just kink has never really been my thing, as a sub it was always lifestyle with a heavy amount of power exchange for me.
I guess I want a sub but one with fire, I have no interest in a doormat or a do-me type, it's important to me to have a partner/lover and friend also, in the same person, and to be able to relate on an equal level also, hell he's a cheeky little sod at times because we both have a playful side and i don't want to loose the playful friendly banter.
I guess i'm just starting out all over again in ways, I have a lot of insite as to the sub side but not much into the Domme side, eg, how do i know when i've pushed enough, i'm worried about being to harsh but also about being to soft etc, it's all confusing so to speak. I can feel that I have it in me, it's just...arranging it all so to speak
|
|
|
|
