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cuckolds in the Femdom world - 6/29/2004 8:51:41 PM

PassionateNights

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i seem to run into two types of cuckold and am curious to get the Female Dominants perspective. The first is the type who feels inadequate (small penis, unable to perform etc) and wants to see his Wife/Dominant take other lovers.
The second is my category, as a natural evolution of my submission, i want my Mistress/Dominant to have all the pleasure she can possibly have and as a matter of devlopment don;t believe i shoul dhave either a sexual orientation or a say in how she finds her pleasure.
am i just wrong? twisted weird? out of line? cause i'm feeling kind alost out here in the world
thanks for your attention

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RE: cuckolds in the Femdom world - 6/29/2004 10:09:45 PM

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What is "normal" or "natural" for you may be different than what is "normal" for others. Concentrate on finding a Domme that shares your view as opposed to wasting your energy worrying over fitting in with the crowd.

That also means allowing others to have their own views as well. It doesn't make them (or you) wrong...only different from each other.

For instance......I believe cuckolding to be an unsafe sexual practice and as such, is not a part of my play. Second....I enjoy the fact that my sub has a masculine/male sexual identity......and I get a thrill from his sexual need. Third, watching 2 men interact sexually is not something that excites me.

I do agree that the Dom/mes pleasure is their business, but only to the limits of SSC (safe sane consensual) for all parties involved. For me, cuckolding involves levels of humiliation I do not wish to explore.

However, I wish you the best in finding the right match for you.

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RE: cuckolds in the Femdom world - 6/29/2004 10:34:30 PM

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I'm rather curious why you wish your dominant to have other sexual partners? I'm not making a judgement call here or anything, just curious. With the spread of sexually trasmitted diseases and the super bugs out there, it seems that you are not caring for your dominant but rather wishing to expose both of you to some really nasty stuff. Condoms simply aren't a guarentee you won't catch something. They get holes in them you can't even see. Pregnancies happen. Are you both prepared to deal with these things? Please understand I'm NOT telling you not to do this, nor that catching something is inevitable, just a very good chance.

Oh, and normal? That is just the state you are used to being in, not a standard box size.

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RE: cuckolds in the Femdom world - 6/30/2004 7:31:01 AM

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I'm not sure what your situation is (I haven't read your profile), therefore I will address this as a 24/7 D/s relationship involving other intimate sexual partners for your Domme/Mistress. You don't want to just randomly pick males off the street that "look" yummy and pull them into her chamber for play. This is dangerous on so many levels. You would want to go through the same process that you went through to find one another, and would go through to include any other long term partner in the relationship. With all of the same care and precautions. Cucking just happens to be one of my fetishes also, but play smart, and safe always. There's no good excuse not to.

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RE: cuckolds in the Femdom world - 6/30/2004 8:22:54 AM

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Here's another thread on the subject for those interested:

http://www.collarme.com/forum/m_8810/mpage_1/key_cuckolding//tm.htm#8827

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RE: cuckolds in the Femdom world - 6/30/2004 8:48:45 AM

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What I see is a caring chuckhold
and not all chuckolds evolve be
cause of a *lack of* but because
of the turnon that seeing their
Other half be it a Mistress or
simply a Wife be sensually happy
at their either mental or physical
cost. Just as there are Men who
get off on being macho there are
Men whom get off on NOT being
macho if that makes any sence to
most.
chuckolds are turned on by many
reasons and not just the stereotyped
whipp that its seeing their mates with
other men in a sexual fashion alone.
chuckolds just like anyone in a BDSM
or Fetish Lifesyle have many reasons
to distinguish their selfs as chuckolds
and enjoying humiliation or others touch
that which is theirs are just a few reasons.
One of the most successfull online
Dominant services I offer are My daily
LOSERGRAMS.
chuckolds simply love em for their selfs
or to have sent to a prospective Mate to
open their eyes as to what they are like.
This would not be such a success if there
were not many men out there whom desire
to be thought of as *less than* instead of
the other way around and also desire for this
thought process to be * brought out* into the
public eye or in the least to those around them.
Again simply another Alternate Lifestyle way
that doesent fit into what society conciders the
* norm*. here is a site that is a perfect sample
of a chuckold being used by his Mistress in a non
sexual manner. follow the link to the livecam:
chuckoldchickensub HAHAHAHAHAHA I couldent resist!!

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RE: cuckolds in the Femdom world - 6/30/2004 12:20:23 PM

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MistressDREAD, very funny chicken link..I enjoyed it. I wonder if BK has actually aired any of them. and Lady Beckett is quite right.. safe is sane.....and hopefully fun!

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RE: cuckolds in the Femdom world - 7/2/2004 2:00:38 AM

PassionateNights

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certainly her saftey is paramount. i would not wish her to get a std from a lover, but that is just life these days, playy extra careful.
she doesn;t even have to take other lovers, it is just an option that i feel she should have....it's not about my pleasure, it's about hers.

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