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fastlane -> Would you Dom a Dom for a day? (7/27/2005 5:59:35 PM)
Pets out for a walk, tied up, or doing dishes or something. You're bored and get a call from a male dom who says, "Hey, my sub does not understand me, my job sucks, I'm tired of telling everybody what to do and Calgon will not take me away. I need help. Will you whip my ass, tie me to the bedpost and make me cry like a baby? I need a great big Dom break and I'm not a switch, so don't go there, but can I cum over?" What do you do? What do you say? How do you feel? I hope this is not a Domb question? [:D]

GoddessDustyGold -> RE: Would you Dom a Dom for a day? (7/27/2005 6:24:59 PM)
Not a Domb question. I can't speak for the other Ladies, but from a personal persepctive, I get those requests more often than one would think. Simple answer: No... More complicated answer: Here are My hourly rates. That Dom would probably have a better shot with Me by attending the local dungeon party and engaging Me. Of course he is hiding out as a "sub" for the evening, so I don't know the difference. That could cause a problem if he has a high profile in the local community. But if I do feel like a bit of play, at least I know he paid his cover charge.

fastlane -> RE: Would you Dom a Dom for a day? (7/27/2005 6:32:11 PM)
We are talking high profile here...that would never work...hiding as a sub....even though one has to wonder....is this a switch? Regardless, the question posed is a private conversation as he does not want to be on display. Gawd, us Doms are so often misunderstood. Does anyone know a good Dom therapist?

LadyAngelika -> RE: Would you Dom a Dom for a day? (7/27/2005 7:19:03 PM)
quote: What do you do? What do you say? How do you feel? I've smiled, said yes, and relished in having this strong man submit to me. - LA

LadySonelle -> RE: Would you Dom a Dom for a day? (7/27/2005 7:19:56 PM)
Would I dominate a Dom? Yes and I have done. It is a wonderful releasing experience and is mutually pleasureable. There are times when even the most dominant need to let go, to be taken. The key is they don't necessarily need to be "beaten into submission" but they do need someone else to "drive" for a while. I never go at it with the idea of "Ha! Now you aren't so big, are you?!" but rather "come here. Darling and let Me cherish you into a subspace you can't refuse!" and the scene commences. Aftercare is a MUST and a great opportunity to re-stack those dominant blicks into the proud tower once again. EVERYONE needs to have their tires rotated now and again. Lady Sonelle

SadisticPrincess -> RE: Would you Dom a Dom for a day? (7/27/2005 8:11:46 PM)
Sure. Enormous fun. Of course, this is not the opportunity to throw it in that person's face........that comes later!

RosaB -> RE: Would you Dom a Dom for a day? (7/27/2005 8:13:30 PM)
If we have an established friendship, yes I would, no problem. Unfortunately, it has been mostly Doms I've never met or only crossed paths with once, who have, openly, asked me to Top them. And my answer to those men is no thanks. If a person decides to release some tension from the other side of the paddle, or whatever, doesn't deminish the core of who they are. Sometimes even dominant types need to escape themselves for a moment and let someone else take the lead.

fastlane -> RE: Would you Dom a Dom for a day? (7/27/2005 8:29:38 PM)
your answers have brought a genuine smile to my face...all very well spoken. I need an advil and a paddle...and I'm not a switch...just having a bad day...LOL

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Would you Dom a Dom for a day? (7/27/2005 8:43:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: fastlane "Hey, my sub does not understand me, my job sucks, I'm tired of telling everybody what to do and Calgon will not take me away. I need help. Will you whip my ass, tie me to the bedpost and make me cry like a baby? If the call came from Lawrence/Topcat, I'd say HELL YEAH! Seriously though, I'm not a casual kind of lady, but say this is someone I know, love, and trust, I might consider it. quote: What do you do? Take a shower, put on something sexy, and go over... Oh no! I can't go over because your sub is already there. Oops, guess we're not hooking up, I'm really not a hook up kind of girl, especially when someone is attached in any way to someone else. M

Lordandmaster -> RE: Would you Dom a Dom for a day? (7/27/2005 10:26:18 PM)
I've dommed a domme (and for more than a day).

LadyAngelika -> RE: Would you Dom a Dom for a day? (7/28/2005 5:01:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster I've dommed a domme (and for more than a day). Ummm... so next you are going to let me dom you, right? <bats her eyelashes sweetly> - LA

TallDarkAndWitty -> RE: Would you Dom a Dom for a day? (7/28/2005 7:12:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig If the call came from Lawrence/Topcat, I'd say HELL YEAH! I'd pay GoddessDustyGold's hourly rates to see that happen. wink Taggard

TallDarkAndWitty -> RE: Would you Dom a Dom for a day? (7/28/2005 7:15:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster I've dommed a domme (and for more than a day). I've done that too. Though it didn't really work for me. I think, in large part, that was because she was doing it for me and that just never will mesh with my service top personality. I need to feel that core of submission that just isn't there, at least it wasn't with the Domme I dommed. Taggard

kc692 -> RE: Would you Dom a Dom for a day? (7/28/2005 7:37:32 AM)
I also have had more than one would guess approach me for the same reason. It DOES grab my attention to know that this person has never submitted to anyone else,,,I'm with LA, a wonderful experience if it is real. (I try to weed out the ones that think when the time comes, somehow the tables will be turned). And yes, I have done it for more than a day myself, smiles.....

SweetDommes -> RE: Would you Dom a Dom for a day? (7/28/2005 10:18:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RosaB If we have an established friendship, yes I would, no problem. Unfortunately, it has been mostly Doms I've never met or only crossed paths with once, who have, openly, asked me to Top them. And my answer to those men is no thanks. If a person decides to release some tension from the other side of the paddle, or whatever, doesn't deminish the core of who they are. Sometimes even dominant types need to escape themselves for a moment and let someone else take the lead. This is how we feel about it too. We have been approached many times, most of them by the same person (who turned into a total asshole after we turned him down the last time and told him to quit asking) and it just doesn't appeal to us, in general. We have never been approached by someone who was only a Dom that we have known well enough to even consider it - switches who had been in the Dom role long term, yes ... but that's about it. Perhaps if we were very good friends with them and then they approached us with it - but in general, we aren't into casual play and your scenario falls into that catagory.

SadisticPrincess -> RE: Would you Dom a Dom for a day? (7/28/2005 11:12:36 AM)
I think we might need to make the distinction here between "bottoming" and "submission". I have bottomed very heavily in the past, and still love being a bondage model, but I am incapable of actual submission. People try to give me orders, and I genuinely don't grok that they are speaking to ME! I am not an endorphin producer, but I can see how that kind of release would be very enjoyable for someone used to being in charge of the scenes. I have no problem doing it, since I can just play for the hell of it, as long as I have some kind of liking/empathy with my playmate.

Lordandmaster -> RE: Would you Dom a Dom for a day? (7/28/2005 11:53:43 AM)
If anything, it was more like I was doing it for her. quote: ORIGINAL: TallDarkAndWitty quote: ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster I've dommed a domme (and for more than a day). I've done that too. Though it didn't really work for me. I think, in large part, that was because she was doing it for me and that just never will mesh with my service top personality.

SadisticPrincess -> RE: Would you Dom a Dom for a day? (7/28/2005 12:40:57 PM)
Well that's only as it should be, sweetie! <G>

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Would you Dom a Dom for a day? (7/28/2005 1:35:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TallDarkAndWitty quote: ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig If the call came from Lawrence/Topcat, I'd say HELL YEAH! I'd pay GoddessDustyGold's hourly rates to see that happen. wink Taggard That was my alter ego talking... This one in fully alert state would probably soil myself if I ever had to take on such an awesome task. [8D] M

Niran -> RE: Would you Dom a Dom for a day? (7/28/2005 4:40:37 PM)
Taggard, I'd split the cost with you, just to see how its done, lol N

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