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wanting to learn how to become a domme - 10/9/2007 2:45:57 PM

tizzme

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I am trying to learn how to be domme for my slave boy ( boyfriend ) & any advice would be usefull, I am new to his lifestyle.

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RE: wanting to learn how to become a domme - 10/9/2007 4:24:31 PM

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You'd be better off asking this in the "Ask A Mistress" forum.

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RE: wanting to learn how to become a domme - 10/9/2007 5:31:35 PM

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you'd actually be better off asking this to people face to face in a meat-life forum...

edited to add: why can't a Master (or male dominant/top/switch in top mode) teach a woman the skills she need to be a Dominant?

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RE: wanting to learn how to become a domme - 10/9/2007 6:11:43 PM

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ORIGINAL: tizzme

I am trying to learn how to be domme for my slave boy ( boyfriend ) & any advice would be usefull, I am new to his lifestyle.

Hopefully you want to learn for yourself too, though..

To start.
For you: Everything you want, have him give you. :) (Within his capability :o :) )
For him: keep him nude all the time and only allowed to eat your scrapes off the floor in his "special" bowl :) (for how ever long you decide he needs to stay in that mode).

Have fun :)

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RE: wanting to learn how to become a domme - 10/10/2007 7:34:11 AM

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thank you :)

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RE: wanting to learn how to become a domme - 10/10/2007 7:35:42 AM

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yes, exactly!!! thank you

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RE: wanting to learn how to become a domme - 10/10/2007 7:42:14 AM

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chellekitty I agree with you on asking people face to face for many reasons one because you have a one on one with them and thats just the start. but as what you said here let me coppy it .
edited to add: why can't a Master (or male dominant/top/switch in top mode) teach a woman the skills she need to be a Dominant?
They can and do. I do this for people I know and any one who ask all the time in may fashions. Why you think it cant be done is beyond me. I have been teaching and doing demos for over 10 years. My question to you is what do you want to know?

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RE: wanting to learn how to become a domme - 10/10/2007 7:42:41 AM

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Yes, i do want to learn :)
It is in my nature, but now that it is labeled as such domme/slave boy & i dont know how far he wants me to go as a slave ( tring to satisfy my boyfriends needs as a slave )other than a coller once in a while & happy to kiss my feet, do alot around the house i am bossy about. It is his lifestyle I am happy to bring it to a higher level.

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RE: wanting to learn how to become a domme - 10/10/2007 7:50:36 AM

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I am going to move this topic to the "ask a misstress forum" Ive posted more info there, but it looks like I am aiming for a mentor, I know nothing lol. :)

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RE: wanting to learn how to become a domme - 10/11/2007 6:04:33 PM

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1) Get out into your local community.
2) Get out into your national community.
3) Read good non-fiction books (see my lists below).
4) Read fun fictions books, keeping reality in mind.
5) Ask him what he thinks and pick things that suit and please you.

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