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WinsomeDefiance -> RE: Sleeping with the boss (10/9/2007 7:23:49 PM)
I have never slept with my boss. Though there was one older man, GC, that I worked for that I was madly infatuated with. When I was assigned to him, all the other assistants said "ohh no! You don't want to work for him. He's impossible to please and he'll ruin your career." I worked with him for over a year, and with the rave job reviews I received, I couldn't convince a soul that I didn't sleep with him. They were all convinced I must have. Fact is, I went into the position with a determination to do all I could to please him. Anticipated his every possible (professional) need, and made my mission in life to be one step ahead of him. The man sang my praises. I think we both enjoyed the sexual tension, and it helped pass the long 7/12's (seven days a week, 12 hours a day.) Aside from GC, there's not ever been a single Boss that I even considered it with. I do not mix my professional and private lives. Now, if I DID have an affair with the boss, these days, it would be along the lines of masterbation. Hmm, guess I wasn't completely candid. I had 'sex' with my boss just the other night.

LaTigresse -> RE: Sleeping with the boss (10/9/2007 7:28:27 PM)
No, no urges for a boss or authority figure. Now, except for the owner that signs the checks (at least for as long as the place lasts) I am the boss. However, if that boss doesn't start doing his job instead of whatever it is he does in his office........I will be looking for a new boss. Or be starting my own company sooner than previously planned....

FangsNfeet -> RE: Sleeping with the boss (10/9/2007 8:14:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lashra I am the Boss and NO I never have nor ever will sleep with any of my employees. ~Lashra Never say never. However, what about Ex Employees, who may have been fired, laid off, or quit for various reasons?

murmur -> RE: Sleeping with the boss (10/9/2007 8:15:30 PM)
my boss is a lady who's younger then me (21 here) sooooo that's not gonna happen. I had fantaisies about teachers when i was younger, but right now, soldiers seems more appealing to me...yum!

iammachine -> RE: Sleeping with the boss (10/9/2007 8:17:02 PM)
quote: I know I've always had a huge professor complex and will admit to having fantasized about almost every relatively attractive prof I've had in college and grad school. I admit, I had the hots for a math prof of mine a few quarters ago. It wasn't so much that he was a prof.... it's that the man was gorgeous and had the most adorable Greek accent.... drool I do tend to find people in positions of power to be more attractive than those that are not. I think that is more a result of my finding a lack of success (or at least lack of direction or ambition) to be rather unattractive, moreso to an overall attraction to power or success. What can I say, I'm a woman. [;)] Whereas I don't expect anyone to provide for me, I have no desire to carry anyone else either, so they should at least be stable themselves. :)

FangsNfeet -> RE: Sleeping with the boss (10/9/2007 8:28:07 PM)
Tigrita, when it comes to work, I go by my Grandfathers advice. "Don't get your meat where you get your bread." After all, I don't care who says what. There are always strings attached. As for fantasies and attarction, keeping distance and more focused on my work, gets me past each quirk.

proudsub -> RE: Sleeping with the boss (10/9/2007 9:06:56 PM)
Hubby is my boss and i've been sleeping with Him for 39 years.[:)]

EvilGeoff -> RE: Sleeping with the boss (10/9/2007 9:18:32 PM)
Grandpa's First Rule Of Workplace Relationships: Son, you best not play, Where you get your pay! A rule I took to heart at a very young age. But yes, I _have_ fantasized about shagging the boss when I've had an attractive female supervisor. And a couple of co-workers almost... a l m o s t ... made me break that rule... YIK, - Geoff PS: LA - Where do you work, and how do I become a client? [sm=evil.gif]

lighthearted -> RE: Sleeping with the boss (10/9/2007 9:26:57 PM)
if you're an authority figure in my life and not related to me, I've pretty much fantasized about fucking you. but, I also realize that there's a big difference between fantasy and reality. I've never actually done it with an employer/supervisor. but then again, if you are even a weensy bit attractive, and I've actually met you in person, chances are...[:D]

TheChastiser -> RE: Sleeping with the boss (10/10/2007 2:11:11 AM)
i would say such fantasy should remain such. its fine while all is ok between the two, but should there be a falling out, careers etc can be affected. best to leave such things outside of the workplace. however, i would say, as a manager, there have been times when i have wished that the disciplinary proceedure at work included crucifixion and flogging(grin). Mike

Lashra -> RE: Sleeping with the boss (10/10/2007 3:17:01 AM)
No means no. [:)] I don't do casual sex for one thing and secondly none of them have ever appealed to me in that way. Plus these days I find myself more attracted to women and frankly, I haven't had that many women work for me. The few that do arent my type. ~Lashra

GoldStallion -> RE: Sleeping with the boss (10/10/2007 4:50:52 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FangsNfeet quote: ORIGINAL: Lashra I am the Boss and NO I never have nor ever will sleep with any of my employees. ~Lashra Never say never. However, what about Ex Employees, who may have been fired, laid off, or quit for various reasons? Like sleeping with the boss/workers?

GoldStallion -> RE: Sleeping with the boss (10/10/2007 5:02:27 AM)
I only slept with a boss once, I was badly hurt by the experience. She promised me a third gold star if I slept with her. I slept with her, but then she demanded more "sleeping with her"....it wasnt really sleeping with her she wanted...it was SEX! I could hardly make another burger after that. I am the boss now, but I dont sleep with employees - although I was once out with one for lunch. There was lots of flirtation and tension and she was cute. Then she asked me, in a fairly quiet and reasonably posh restaurant, maybe 8 other diners... "SO....DO YOU LIKE ANAL SEX?"...the whole place just went dead. I figured discretion wouldnt be high on her list so I stuck to the adage "dont dip your pen in the company ink". Lucky I did, because a few months later she told me she had Gonorrhoea. And that folks, is a true story.

Prinsexx -> RE: Sleeping with the boss (10/10/2007 9:34:33 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: came4U I chased a boss once, a hot Italian hunk of man-meat Tony? where r YOUuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu??? [:(] lol I have been thinking about this came4u and you know....everything changes after three months with an Italian bieve me I know......HOT becomes cold and I aim't talkin gellatti....pain becomes pasta...you know those wriggly little vermicelli.....I lived there and was married to one....and the only common conversation I ever over heard was the women discussing what they did with his life insurance........

LordVelvet -> RE: Sleeping with the boss (10/10/2007 10:54:04 AM)
I have slept with 2 of My bosses over the years. First when I was 17, then at 22. Both were great experiences. No regrets. LordVelvet

rhythmboi -> RE: Sleeping with the boss (10/10/2007 1:18:30 PM)
I'm in school again for graduate work, and while i don't fantasize about sleeping with every professor, i do find that i'm a little more prepared and on my intellectual game in the classes taught by profs whom i wouldn't mind getting it on with (i think this means i'm either a bad academic or a bad person). Of course, i'd probably completely freak out if the opportunity actually presented itself in reality.

Tigrita -> RE: Sleeping with the boss (10/10/2007 1:24:09 PM)
Mmmmm, I live for that smile that Prof Pasquinelli gets when someone pipes up with a really good, smart question or comment. It makes my week to get that smile from her =)

feastie -> RE: Sleeping with the boss (10/10/2007 3:33:36 PM)
I've had sex with the boss ... there was no sleeping involved. [:D] Can't say as I'd ever repeat it, but I didn't experience any problems with it when I did it. And we did it a lot. [;)]

missturbation -> RE: Sleeping with the boss (10/10/2007 3:41:12 PM)
I have sex with the boss on a very regular basis as i am the boss [:D]

Prinsexx -> RE: Sleeping with the boss (10/10/2007 3:51:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: came4U Why do men tend to end up sucessful AFTER it is over? Because leaving a mark or their spunk or their piss is like marking out their territory?

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