LadyPact
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I don't formally journal. As most of you know, I pretty much put My life out there on the open boards. Once in a while, an occassional topic comes out that is relevant to some of you out there. When that happens, it's usually My pleasure to share that, and hear feedback from your own experiences. Many times, it turns out to be interesting. On occassion, some couldn't care less. Not long ago, there was a thread going on about the different hurdles that a submissive has to leap in order to get to certain stages in progress. One of My main ones is what it really takes for a submissve to earn his way into My home. It may sound like an easy thing to some in different situations out there, but in Mine, this is a huge deal. It is bigger than play. It is bigger than attending events without My husband (I'm poly) present. Bigger than, well, short of his actual collaring, anything else. It is a signifigant almost beyond compare in the view of My eyes. Before I continue with this happy little moment, let Me say that I wasn't especially prepared for it. Literally dishes in the sink, and laundry unfolded in the basket. I'm not going to say I was completely comfortable with the state of the house. Ok, much less than comfortable. You get My drift. Still, in what might seem to some as nothing more interesting that receiving a pedicure while My husband watched a football game (if you follow football, and understand that My husband is a HUGE Buffalo fan..... another set of not so good circumstances) this little moment in time, almost made My year! It is one of the greatest steps for Me in what I have always hoped for. Take from it what you will. A discussion on the different things a submissive must achieve before hitting a certain level. What it takes to bring a submissive home. Maybe other moments in time that you have considered a signifigant difference in your relationships. What is that one thing, that made your BDSM better than it was before. I've been around these boards a while. Has anyone noticed that I am content?
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The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie. Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread
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