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RE: anal sex - 10/20/2007 6:18:59 AM

bulejkt1972

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ORIGINAL: twistedwillow

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eventually he got in, and anal sex with him was something i craved on a regular basis, after the first time the only lube used was pussy juice and there were never any problems again.

Anal sex is fine and hot, but obviously it's a good idea to take it slow. My ass is TOTALLY tite - and I've been with guys and girls who "just let me glide in" on the first date. But when they come running whith their erect organs? I hide under the bed...

It's really quite different what people can take in their ass - most (girls and guys) are QUITE "accepting" - which makes ME feel like a freak - why can't I just take the "mutha-load" up my lill popo... but NO Jose...

The lesson learned is that engaging in anal escapades demands for taking it slowly. Do a little enema, and make sure She fucks you s l o w l y!

But take Her bb... that makes it a bit more "kinky" ;-)

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RE: anal sex - 10/20/2007 9:18:28 PM

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I believe the OP is referring to the belief that submitting to anal penetration is the ultimate act of submission.
I believe the ultimate act of submission would be obeying an order to commit suicide.

I think Harry wins on total acts of submission. To myself, a total act of submission entails the thought and follow through wirh according behavior to accepting mine as the final word on say any and all things (from washing dishes, to phucking or being phucked, to financial domination), but these are my kinks.

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RE: anal sex - 10/20/2007 11:25:52 PM

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It also depends on whether he is seeking it as a sexual exercise (just another way of getting off) or is having it imposed on him (submitting to the intrusion as a way to please her desires).

This is the qualifier I would need to answer the OP. If he seeks it, then it isn't the ultimate act of submission. If, on the other hand, he offers it even tho he doesn't want it....then yes, it could very well be "his" ultimate act of submission.

That's my take on the question/topic.

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RE: anal sex - 10/21/2007 3:33:40 AM

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Given the amount of horror, debate and complaint about the topic, the ultimate act of submission must be handing your money over to your Domme.

Money is power and the idea of handing over power by handing over money just totally freaks out most kinksters, it seems. I bet even the OP would happily bend over and hold his ankles for Mistress before he gave her his paycheck.

Makes a phuck in the arse seem pretty tame, really. Just look at all the long, boring, boring discussions about Dommes, power and money on this board :(

The problem with suicide being the ultimate act of submission is that the scene is too short. A Mistress can get her rocks off spending your money for years and years!

Ms C (tongue in cheek, OK? I don't control my sub's finances even though he would love me to)

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RE: anal sex - 10/27/2007 7:12:44 AM

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kind of depends on if She is taking you with a strapon, of if She is having someone else take you *winks*

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RE: anal sex - 10/27/2007 7:15:32 AM

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is it a male subs total submissive act

No.

In fact I would say that any type of sex act is not innately submissive or dominant. Both people should enjoy the sexual encounter in my opinion.

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RE: anal sex - 10/27/2007 3:22:51 PM

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To the original poster - I guess it could be considered your act of sexual sumbmission. For me any act could be considered a sign of submission - it just depends upon the relationship you have

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