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MasterJBK -> i don't orgasm when i cum (10/11/2007 7:41:12 PM)

is that unhealthy, i have never had an orgasm in my life, is that unhealthy?



Aileen68 -> RE: i don't orgasm when i cum (10/11/2007 7:46:08 PM)

So no fireworks????  Just an oozing kind of feeling?



MasterJBK -> RE: i don't orgasm when i cum (10/11/2007 8:12:54 PM)

i cum but i don't orgasm, cumming is the physical and orgasming is the mental.



Aileen68 -> RE: i don't orgasm when i cum (10/11/2007 8:16:29 PM)

Well that sucks.



MasterJBK -> RE: i don't orgasm when i cum (10/11/2007 8:21:43 PM)

well there is one good thing to it. i have never had blue balls.



Aileen68 -> RE: i don't orgasm when i cum (10/11/2007 8:24:38 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterJBK

i have never had blue balls.


Neither have I.  Hahahaha



mistoferin -> RE: i don't orgasm when i cum (10/11/2007 8:40:56 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterJBK
orgasming is the mental.


huh???



iammachine -> RE: i don't orgasm when i cum (10/11/2007 8:41:55 PM)

That depends entirely on what you are expecting from the big O. I have no idea what it feels like for a dude, but you don't get that spasm-y body rush feeling? Do you just kind of... squirt? Is this after extensive stimulation, or does it happen quickly? If you are ejaculating too soon, I imagine that can be rather frustrating and not as pleasant. You might try things to prolong the experience (tease and denial is great for a buildup, in my experience) so you've built more tension when you finally do "release".

How you mentally process it can vary wildly from person to person I imagine. Generally that is one of the few times that I don't have much going on upstairs other than "oh, that feels goooood!"



iammachine -> RE: i don't orgasm when i cum (10/11/2007 8:43:04 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mistoferin

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterJBK
orgasming is the mental.


huh???


Exactly. [:D]



MasterJBK -> RE: i don't orgasm when i cum (10/11/2007 8:50:28 PM)

just squirt the closesest i have ever come to body jerking is a yawn. and no it is not after extensive stimulation about 15 minutes of stimulation and then if i try it again double that time.

girls just don't get it. :P

i can have sex and still not have an orgasm.



iammachine -> RE: i don't orgasm when i cum (10/11/2007 9:12:52 PM)

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i can have sex and still not have an orgasm.


Hell, I've never had an orgasm from intercourse alone!

Girl's don't get it, feh! Sure, I don't know what it feels like to have a tallywhacker, but I know what an orgasm feels like!

My suggestion? Go see a doc.

PS: Girls have way better orgasms, anyway! [;)]



mistoferin -> RE: i don't orgasm when i cum (10/11/2007 9:15:28 PM)

I think that I understand what you are saying....that you don't experience any pleasurable sensation upon ejaculation. Have you talked to a doctor about this?



MasterJBK -> RE: i don't orgasm when i cum (10/11/2007 9:16:54 PM)

nope should i?



SixFootMaster -> RE: i don't orgasm when i cum (10/11/2007 9:17:06 PM)

Hmm. I'd say that you're not emotionally into what you're involved in - do you get the rush of intoxication and thrill from what you're doing, that feeling like every sense is more alive than ever? It's a taste I can never get enough of, and I will work my girl until she collapses to savor every last drop she can yield - but if you aren't getting anything like that, then whatever you are doing seems to be not part of your makeup, not your thing.

My mind and my body are two seperate things, and can be pleased entirely seperately, so that sounds about the same.



mistoferin -> RE: i don't orgasm when i cum (10/11/2007 9:20:33 PM)

Yes you should. Seriously, if that is what you are experiencing I believe that you most likely have a condition called Sexual Anhedonia.....and it does respond to treatment in many cases. Seriously...let me see if I can find you some info on it.



MasterJBK -> RE: i don't orgasm when i cum (10/11/2007 9:25:04 PM)

well i don't currently have anyone but yes i get that sensation when i have someone. put last time i didn't orgasm either. even with that sesation present. i get more pleasure out of a stimulating conversation then i do sex. so what you are saying is i should have more stimulating conversations so to speak.



MasterJBK -> RE: i don't orgasm when i cum (10/11/2007 9:27:35 PM)

already know about the condition and will go and treat it when i can. look at my profile i already know about anhedonia. what i was trying to do was get ppls opinions on it.



mistoferin -> RE: i don't orgasm when i cum (10/11/2007 9:28:24 PM)

This is just from a quick search on Wikipedia. I googled the term also and there is really quite a lot of information on it. Check it out. There is a whole lot you are missing that you really don't want to be missing if you can help it. You're just going to have to trust me on that one.

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Sexual anhedonia
Sexual anhedonia is known as 'ejaculatory anhedonia'. This rare condition means that the person will ejaculate with no accompanying sense of pleasure. This condition is most frequently found in males, but women can suffer from lack of pleasure when the body goes through the orgasm process as well.
Sexual anhedonia may be caused by:

A urological examination and blood tests can determine the cause of a specific case of sexual anhedonia. If no physiological problems are found, one should seek treatment via psychotherapy with a certified sex therapist, or psychotherapist.
Patients may be prescribed sustained-release bupropion to aid in treatment, because bupropion has been shown to increase sexual desire and intensity of orgasm.  



MstrDennynSlave -> RE: i don't orgasm when i cum (10/11/2007 9:31:31 PM)

look up ejaculatory anhedonia in your web search. a lot of good information on the disorder. it often affects men more than women, but women can have it too, especially if taking an SSRI anti depressant. Speak to your doctor about it after you research it. and good luck to you



MasterJBK -> RE: i don't orgasm when i cum (10/11/2007 9:36:10 PM)

thank you.



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