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RE: One Night Stands - 10/13/2007 10:45:49 PM

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BTW, anyone that claims that sex on a one night stand is better than sex after several years of knowing someone just isn't doing it right.

Knowledge is power, or in this case ecstasy.

I wholeheartedly agree.

I have done the one night stand thing and can honestly say that I didn't care for it. It's not that the sex was awful or anything....I just didn't like the way that the experience made me feel about myself. I guess it's just not my thing.

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/14/2007 2:00:42 AM

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it can leave an empty and hollow feeling and then the showers run up the water bill and you really arent happy, lol

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/14/2007 2:31:28 AM

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I'm a big advocate for one night stands. I think everyone should have at least one in their lifetime. There's just something about getting primal with a stranger. I find it to be fucking hot. Soooo....have you ever and did you enjoy it?

Had a few. Some good some bad. One time I am not sure I even knew his name!

Last one night stand went all wrong though. Met him online. Decided to meet so he could do all sorts of kinky stuff to me. Met in a hotel room lots of needles and sex. 4 years later he is still here! Wasn't expecting that at all. LOL

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/14/2007 2:53:02 AM

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Sugar,

I was in a commited 6 year relationship and still had one night stands. It isn't an intimacy issue.

Yes I realize that sounds ironic.

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/14/2007 3:02:44 AM

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too many here.

loved the pic lol

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/14/2007 4:38:34 AM

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Here's my one night stand....

http://www.davidandgoliathtees.com/index.php?mode=DETAIL&parent=SRCH&pid=3454&page=1&perpage=16

i think the ships-that-pass-in-the-night can be really hot, none of that messy "oh is he gonna call me again" crap. Purely physical. On the other hand, first time sex can be stressful for the male and the female. Is he gonna think i'm fat, what if i squirt, oh dear god what if i fart....

Sex in a bonded, trusting relationship takes away all those barriers, in my opinion and allows a freedom of expression that makes for more intensity and allows pure pleasure to flow naturally. i'm glad i had some smokin hot one-nighters but would not trade any of them for what i have now.

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/14/2007 4:47:03 AM

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Everyone should have two nightstands; one for each side. You people that settle for one nightstand are wonky in the brain., if I do say so myself.

http://www.everythingfurniture.com/nightstands.html

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/14/2007 4:53:32 AM

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never had a one night stand but it seems like it'd be really interesting. I really wouldn't know how to throw up that idea to a total stranger though.

Try....."I'll pick you up at 7, don't say a fuckin' word from the moment you get in my car, I'll take you to a quiet spot, gag you, slap you around and fuck you into a coma".

If she's reasonable, she'll say "any chance we can make it sooner than 7?"

If she's not, well, the obstructive types have a habit of being self-absorbed and non-cooperative.

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/14/2007 4:56:59 AM

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Oh Northern Gent, my girlish heart is all aflutter now, ya big smoothy.

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/14/2007 5:00:54 AM

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never had a one night stand but it seems like it'd be really interesting. I really wouldn't know how to throw up that idea to a total stranger though.

Try....."I'll pick you up at 7, don't say a fuckin' word from the moment you get in my car, I'll take you to a quiet spot, gag you, slap you around and fuck you into a coma".

If she's reasonable, she'll say "any chance we can make it sooner than 7?"

If she's not, well, the obstructive types have a habit of being self-absorbed and non-cooperative.

wondering if he is one of my one night stands... didn't catch your name lol

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/14/2007 5:25:12 AM

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I am sooooo tired of one night stands. On the bright side, though, I'm a pretty good fuck at this point. So it wasn't a waste of my time; I learned a skill.

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/14/2007 5:40:19 AM

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I've had a couple but my memory is mainly of being nervous, not knowing if the guy would enjoy what I did, if I would get rejected etc. I prefer sex inside a committed relationship where your quirks are already known and accepted.

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/14/2007 5:44:44 AM

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Never had a one-night stand. Probably never will. I'm a good girl.

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/14/2007 5:58:39 AM

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OOOOOOh the memories, back in the day......before HIV , I didnt want a relationship, I just wanted "fun" and had some wild one night stands, some slightly "meh" but the last one was the most dangerous... we have been together for 23 years,

Lookin back on it, I was asking for trouble, but was incredibly lucky regarding "safety". But the memories will keep me warm when Im a cantankerous old biddy. Hot wild sex in strange places with a hot stranger....

fun fun fun.... Now im just waiting for some enterprising person to open a retirement home for kinksters.....
Lucy

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/14/2007 6:07:35 AM

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I'm a big advocate for one night stands. I think everyone should have at least one in their lifetime. There's just something about getting primal with a stranger. I find it to be fucking hot. Soooo....have you ever and did you enjoy it?

Yes, and while it was pleasurable, I prefer to be with someone I know and care about.

Having said that, if an attractive woman shows up and starts pressing herself against my front door......

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/14/2007 6:09:59 AM

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Also...a bad one-night stand is a whole lot better than a bad long-term relationship!

amen....i had a one night stand go bad and turned into a 20 year relationship

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/14/2007 6:20:47 AM

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believe it or not - never had a one-night stand in my life

yep, i'm a very good "church" girl *polishing halo*

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/14/2007 6:33:55 AM

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Actually sex with a stranger can be liberating because you don’t have to worry about the effect things could have on a relationship. So you are happy to try things you’d otherwise think twice about.

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/14/2007 6:58:14 AM

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For me, the occasional one night stand is pleasant when I'm not in a relationship.... I had a one night stand 3some this past summer...that was incredible...and totally dispelled my squick factor on sex with anyone young enough to be my offspring. It was even sort of an ego boost.

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/14/2007 7:11:04 AM

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it wouldn't be liberating for me to have sex with a stranger or casual play partner. i need to be in a solid relationship before considering sex.

personally i want more than a quick fuck that's meaningless and loveless.

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