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RosesHaveThorns -> RE: CM Stalking by a master? (10/17/2007 11:30:59 AM)
There could be a lack of trust. But she does know he is doing it, so that mitigates that aspect to me. However, I've read my Master's posts on these forums. It wasn't that I didn't trust him, I just wanted to know what he had to say, and what topics had interested him. I could easily see someone doing the same. Afterall, we make posts to be seen, even by strangers. Wouldn't it make sense to share what we want known on a public forum to those we are close to? That's just how I see it.

came4U -> RE: CM Stalking by a master? (10/17/2007 11:49:05 AM)
I wouldn't stalked, if I had a Master I wouldn't even be here nor use a computer for more than work or other non-bdsm/social emailing etc. Having a man would reduce my spare net surfing time down to nil. If no job was necessary (in a hypothetical world), I would toss the computer or give it to charity.

MrDiscipline44 -> RE: CM Stalking by a master? (10/17/2007 12:15:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl jeebus - quit reading between the lines for something that wasn't there Maybe you should follow your own advice.

DarkDaddyZ -> RE: CM Stalking by a master? (10/17/2007 12:25:00 PM)
Hmmmmm, I'm a oxymoron. I am comfortable with people reading my posts, profiles and threads because I do the same thing to some people I find interesting on the board or who's profiles I find interesting. Yet I do find it irritating at times when someone that has approached me that I am not interested in to keep reading my profile looking for changes or whatever, and occasionally it creeps me out. Z-

came4U -> RE: CM Stalking by a master? (10/17/2007 12:27:04 PM)
quote: Yet I do find it irritating at times when someone that has approached me that I am not interested in to keep reading my profile looking for changes or whatever, and occasionally it creeps me out. awe ya caught me! lmao signed, your stalker [sm=flowers.gif]

RosesHaveThorns -> RE: CM Stalking by a master? (10/17/2007 12:48:33 PM)
The difference is, June has given consent and permission, and she knows the guy, presumably, if he's her master. So it's not a stranger, it's someone that they share some form of bond with. But I agree...Sometimes strangers on the internet can go a wee bit too far.

DarkDaddyZ -> RE: CM Stalking by a master? (10/17/2007 1:08:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: came4U quote: Yet I do find it irritating at times when someone that has approached me that I am not interested in to keep reading my profile looking for changes or whatever, and occasionally it creeps me out. awe ya caught me! lmao signed, your stalker [sm=flowers.gif] Dear your stalker, You haven't officially approached me so you weren't on that list....[:D] yet [8D]

chellekitty -> RE: CM Stalking by a master? (10/17/2007 4:45:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkDaddyZ Dear your stalker, You haven't officially approached me so you weren't on that list....[:D] yet [8D] can i be an offical stalker?

BlackKnight -> RE: CM Stalking by a master? (10/17/2007 4:58:50 PM)
be carefull of who you stalk.

DarkDaddyZ -> RE: CM Stalking by a master? (10/17/2007 5:18:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: chellekitty quote: ORIGINAL: DarkDaddyZ Dear your stalker, You haven't officially approached me so you weren't on that list....[:D] yet [8D] can i be an offical stalker? Have you put out yet?

PassionateTulip -> RE: CM Stalking by a master? (10/17/2007 5:20:20 PM)
Well, as soon as you call it "stalking" it raises a few eyebrows automatically for those who don't grasp the concept of quotations. You are simply and rightfully monitoring your girl as you see fit. It is obviously not for the point of being able to hound her, but merely to know where she is at on a given day, and to maybe get a few laughs, insights, or other musings. It is part of your job as a Master to know where your slave is "at" much of the time emotionally and mentally, and a good way to learn is via witnessing her expressions. Now if this were true stalking we spoke of here, like calling her every 15 minutes on the dot throughout the day, snapping photos as she enters or leaves anywhere, and so forth well.... unless she consented to it and enjoyed it, that would be something for concern.... but you are well within your rights, responsibilities, and reason as a Master to do as you are doing. Just think how she'd feel if you DIDN'T care what she was doing, thinking, feeling, etc.... PT

chellekitty -> RE: CM Stalking by a master? (10/17/2007 5:22:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkDaddyZ quote: ORIGINAL: chellekitty quote: ORIGINAL: DarkDaddyZ Dear your stalker, You haven't officially approached me so you weren't on that list....[:D] yet [8D] can i be an offical stalker? Have you put out yet? have you come with in "putting out" range yet?

DarkDaddyZ -> RE: CM Stalking by a master? (10/17/2007 5:37:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: chellekitty quote: ORIGINAL: DarkDaddyZ quote: ORIGINAL: chellekitty quote: ORIGINAL: DarkDaddyZ Dear your stalker, You haven't officially approached me so you weren't on that list....[:D] yet [8D] can i be an offical stalker? Have you put out yet? have you come with in "putting out" range yet? Gee I don't know, I'm a shy leatherman [:D]

chellekitty -> RE: CM Stalking by a master? (10/17/2007 6:02:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkDaddyZ Gee I don't know, I'm a shy leatherman [:D] wait!! hold on!! i need a minute to put on my hipwaders, cause its getting deep in here....

NorthsideBill -> RE: CM Stalking by a master? (10/17/2007 6:15:44 PM)
For what its worth, I like to know what my subbie is thinking and talking about too but I like for her to tell me and talk to me about it. It seems better that way, we get to communicate more and it brings us closer :)

PryderiLoup -> RE: CM Stalking by a master? (10/17/2007 6:20:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NorthsideBill For what its worth, I like to know what my subbie is thinking and talking about too but I like for her to tell me and talk to me about it. It seems better that way, we get to communicate more and it brings us closer :) I agree that talking to her is important, and that reading her posts is not a replacement for talking. However, when she talks to you, she is, well, talking to her dominant. Her thoughts, demeaner, choice of words may be very different when she is posting online. You get to see her from a different angle...

laurell3 -> RE: CM Stalking by a master? (10/17/2007 11:15:43 PM)
heh I probably look at all your profiles repeatedly, by the time I'm on the forums I'm tired and usually chatting at the same time and I just don't remember, sorry, not stalking, just senile. l

heartcream -> RE: CM Stalking by a master? (10/18/2007 1:23:11 AM)
Stalking is the wrong word. Following her around like a cute puppy dog is more like it. Okay I mean, following her around like a Big Alpha Male Dominant is not stalking in my books. Stalking is with evil intent. Following someone around can be pathetic in some cases but it is not stalking. You are interested in her and how she thinks that is sweet and good I would say. Stalking her in a deceitful way, laying traps for her, that sort of thing is icky and stalking in my books, but gobbling up everything she says feels fine and healthy to me. The last guy I dated was a bit of a train wreck. He gave me a false name, area of town he lived in, said he was not married, had no children and was being monogamous with me. None of it was true. I accidentally found an address for him and one day rode my bike over there to find he lives in a gorgeous home in a very beautiful part of the city, not where he said, with his wife and wee son. Now if I had been stalking him I would have lurked about days on end and who knows what else. I didnt stalk him. I investigated an address found out the truth about him and let him alone. I didnt tell his wife, I didnt stick around to introduce myself, blackmail him or any sordid hurtful thing. It sucked so bad that he lied. Me investigating information I found by accident, not by snooping proved he was a bag of lies. Continuing to go to his house would have been stalking but I never went back there and have no intent to.

gypsygrl -> RE: CM Stalking by a master? (10/18/2007 3:42:11 AM)
No, its not strange at all. Why wouldn't you want to see what she's written? Why do people read except to find out what others have written? And, why do people write, except to be read? I'm not above stalking guys via forums. My Master doesn't post, but if he did, you can bet I'd read every word. I'd back read too. If someone doesn't like the idea of having what they've written being read, they shouldn't put it out in a public venue. All this having been said, I do think you should talk to her about it and find out why she's uncomfortable.

PryderiLoup -> RE: CM Stalking by a master? (10/18/2007 4:35:40 AM)
quote: All this having been said, I do think you should talk to her about it and find out why she's uncomfortable. I may be missing something. A couple of people have mentioned that she was "uncomfortable" with this. The OP merely said she thought it was "Weird". I am not so sure she is uncomfortable. Maybe in a later post?

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