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Aileen68 -> RE: Disappearing Doms (10/21/2007 1:36:22 AM)
Perhaps he had a convenient power failure.

InkedMaster -> RE: Disappearing Doms (10/21/2007 6:27:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: fsub4use Hello A/all i have done a few scenes with a dom - in the torture room or in private chat.... and somehow they just all of a sudden disappear... and don't come back. Is this normal? Means his wifey came into the room and caught him jerkin his gerkin.

TemptingNviceSub -> RE: Disappearing Doms (10/21/2007 9:04:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: InkedMaster quote: ORIGINAL: fsub4use Hello A/all i have done a few scenes with a dom - in the torture room or in private chat.... and somehow they just all of a sudden disappear... and don't come back. Is this normal? Means his wifey came into the room and caught him jerkin his gerkin. Haven't you heard?..In cyber land they are never gerkins! They are, at the LEAST, cucumbers on steroids!!!..[;)]..Tempting

LDRandAstarte -> RE: Disappearing Doms (10/21/2007 9:59:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KatyLied quote: Is this a big difference with cyber play? Yeah. Cyber play isn't, um, real. REally, when I started reading the OP I was starting to feel sorry for the girl untill I realized she was talking about cyber and then I laughed and peed my boxers!

julietsierra -> RE: Disappearing Doms (10/22/2007 2:51:05 AM)
here's a suggestion: /me gets herself a glass of water, shakes her head in wonderment and says "Whoohooo!! That was good!!!" (or bad, as the case may be) or.. /me shivers in awe... pauses a moment... and calls out "NEXT!!" and then there's: /me convulses with ill-concealed laughter and hands ____'s next.. er... lover... the magnifying glass. oh wait... How about...(I always love these): /me flips her long radiantly red (or blond) tresses over her shoulder, wipes the glistening sheen from her forehead and shows ________ her grocery list. (of course, I'm presuming you're using mIRC) See, this is why I don't do this stuff...In the end, I usually turn it into a joke. juliet

ehlovindom -> RE: Disappearing Doms (10/22/2007 6:14:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: fsub4use lol - well thanks for all the responses. i guess i hate the idea of not being able to get really submissive, but oh well. Thanks so much. NOT being able to? /me thinks you are getting WAY TOO submissive for online chat.

Vanatru -> RE: Disappearing Doms (10/22/2007 6:34:30 PM)
uh, hmm, if you get off on typed sexual descriptions, have you thought of written sexual fantasy? there's lots of stuff out there and it only stops when you get tired of reading...

adoracat -> RE: Disappearing Doms (10/23/2007 7:14:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Vanatru uh, hmm, if you get off on typed sexual descriptions, have you thought of written sexual fantasy? there's lots of stuff out there and it only stops when you get tired of reading... i can, and have. however, its not the words themselves, but the person i'm sharing them with. kitten, who's funny that way

sweetestnettles -> RE: Disappearing Doms (10/23/2007 11:21:24 PM)
haha what Vanatru said! Men are men (no offence) and some of them just want to get off lol. Cyber-play mightn't be the greatest or most satisfying way to get your kicks. Maybe if it's one particular Dom you're interested in who so far as proved that he's trustworthy and whose computer doesn't suddenly 'freeze' right after emission

Dnomyar -> RE: Disappearing Doms (10/24/2007 10:23:45 AM)
treehugger42 arent 99.9% of the people in chatrooms strangers?? To the op if cyber is your thing go for it. I see that you are in Korea. Do these people expect you to jump on the next plane and come meet everyone you talk to for real.

colouredin -> RE: Disappearing Doms (10/24/2007 11:23:47 AM)
Gosh, seems like most people who have responded have never done cyber play. Thats a new one on me, most people i know have at some point or another. Normally during distance relationships but also when i was (to sound cheesy) discovering myself. Id say to the OP, ask him why, if he does it a lot then he is probably just after a wank so leave it. But maybe he thinks it adds to it all.

pinkme2 -> RE: Disappearing Doms (10/25/2007 1:07:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: colouredin Gosh, seems like most people who have responded have never done cyber play. Thats a new one on me, most people i know have at some point or another. Normally during distance relationships but also when i was (to sound cheesy) discovering myself. Id say to the OP, ask him why, if he does it a lot then he is probably just after a wank so leave it. But maybe he thinks it adds to it all. I read the OP but was quite surprised by the majority of the responses. Just because something is online, doesn't make it irrelevant. There are real people on the other side of the computer. I can get into a pretty submissive space while playing and it's very appreciated for there to be closure at the end of play. For a Dom to disappear would be frustrating for me. Perhaps it's not the same "aftercare" as you would see after a "real" scene, but it serves the same purpose. After I played in r/t, cyber wasn't the same, but it still carries weight for me. Just to say, good scene, or to chat normally for a few minutes makes all the difference.

wisteriaV -> RE: Disappearing Doms (10/25/2007 3:05:25 PM)
Oh baby fuck me with that huge piece of man meat and make my tight wet slutty slit shiver with the pulsing cum from yuour massive dick head? umm okkkkkkkkkkk. Anyways, lol sweetestnettles, Master aka Vanatru didnt enjoy that the first time I typed it and when I said it he laffed..shrugs guess I dont have the right mindset.[:D]

texancutie -> RE: Disappearing Doms (10/25/2007 3:09:40 PM)
lol..I almost spit out my cola with that comment. Cyber aftercare......that was really good WinsomeDefiance!

MisterP61 -> RE: Disappearing Doms (10/26/2007 2:22:09 AM)
I actually do some cyber "playing" with My girl. she lives in bama and I am in GA, so O/our chances of R/T are far and few between. I do not consider Myself to be the best Dominant in the world, and I learn more everyday, but We do O/our playing cyberly. Now, let Me tell you what "playing" means to Me. she is to perform certain rituals at very specific times of the day, and she also has "punishments" that she must endure when she either enters IM or a chat room on another site. If her rituals were not done at the proper time, she is to turn on her cam, and kneel on the floor for 15 minutes before she may speak to Me, and then she must tell Me why she missed her duties. I do not subscribe to the "cyber spanking", and that punishment to her is the worst, for she knows I am disappointed in her, and that is worse then her not being able to talk to Me or the kneeling. OK, now for why I brought this up on this topic. cyber can have a place in this lifestyle, however; it is not so I can get My "rocks" off. It is for Me to keep the relationship going, to be in My place with her always. It makes our R/T experience on an even keel. I do not punish her twice for something I was able to take care of cyberly. \ So while there are those that will "whack" and run, there are also those of Us who use the tools available to keep the dynamic going strong. It is like anything else that We do in life..... there are always going to be risks.... but withoput them We stand to gain nothing. MP

Beastwithinme -> RE: Disappearing Doms (10/28/2007 1:58:27 AM)
Greetings fsub4use, I see two key words that are the root of My answer to your question, the words are chat and cyber. It's been My observation that most of the so called Doms in chat are (A) Married and thier wife has NO clue that they chat and are even associated with BDSM, or (B) they claim to be a Dom or Master and have never actually lived one second of it in real life...hence the word player comes to mind. My guess is that they either had to go offline because thier wife or kid came home or they just lost interest in the subject at the time because they were also talking to someone else in pm that seemed to offer more than you were. If I were you I wouldn't put much faith into anyone that is a yahoo or chat Master, of course thats just My opinion and you can take that for whats its worth to you. Good luck, Beast

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