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knees2you -> Pet Peeves?? (7/1/2004 12:07:20 PM)
[:)]When you Give a compliment to Someone, Would you consider the answer {ok} a bad turn off. Just curious~[&:] Sincerely, eyesofAslave[;)] quote: No I'm not affraid of Who's behind the Door" [image]local://upfiles/19655/C85C1088BDB547E187C4D39A366B4029.jpg[/image]

Sinergy -> RE: Pet Peeves?? (7/1/2004 12:11:36 PM)
Im not sure I would be turned off by it. When I do something nice for somebody, and their response is abrasive or dismissive, it doesnt really make me overly willing to do any more nice things for them. But I want to caveat this by saying that such responses are customary in this society. For example: I give person X a present. They respond "You shouldnt have." It is a programmed response from their upbringing, used in place of saying "Thank you." Sinergy

UtahGoddess -> RE: Pet Peeves?? (7/1/2004 1:00:47 PM)
It's not the preferred response, but it doesn't turn me off. Some people don't handle compliments well. It could also be that what you said as a compliment was not received as such or was considered inappropriate. It may have been bad timing or lack of attention. There are a hundred reasons why you didn't get the expected response. But....when you compliment someone....do you do so because you believe it is true....or is it given to bring attention to you? <winks> Ms Sandi

TimeReality -> RE: Pet Peeves?? (7/3/2004 10:45:44 AM)
It depends on the compliment and how many times I've recieved it during that day or by liars. Now mind you I love recieving compliments, and can blush easily by them since I actually rarely get them. Most popular is 'You look nice" well thank you but no, I'm still not interested in taking you on [:'(]

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