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So much more than a "B" word - 7/1/2004 3:49:39 PM   
LadyBeckett


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Status: offline 		Oh I know, I am literally on a posting frenzy here! lol I just had a couple of things I wanted to share, and this is one of them...

Someone called me a "bitch" last night. I told him that yes I am, I have been one for a very long time, and am therefore very good at it. Which is why I am the Mistress, and he is not. *sigh* I don't think that most people, especially the non-bitches, know what a Bitch really is, in the more up-to-date definition. It used to be a female dog in a certain state of breeding, pre or post or something, I'm not sure. Then it was adopted as a term to describe a woman's mood or less than positive or favorable reaction to something. NOW, however, it includes other things that aren't necessarily negative.

When he called me a "bitch" last night, what he was really saying was, "I am angry and frustrated because I can't control you and this is the only way I can think of in this moment to express that." Or not, lol, but he was clearly distressed, and I, just as clearly, was not. He was speaking to something positive about me. So there you have it. So the next time someone calls you a "bitch"...think about that.

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RE: So much more than a "B" word - 7/1/2004 3:58:45 PM   
EStrict


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Status: offline 		Bitch? Isn't that the acronym for:

Beautiful
Intelligent
Totally
Confident &
Happy

Of course there are the negative ones,, ::winks:: but they aren't worth acronyms....

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RE: So much more than a "B" word - 7/1/2004 4:01:17 PM   
LadyBeckett


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Status: offline 		I have seen that before, but I don't recall where. I am going to copy it so I'll remember it! Of course you're right!!

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RE: So much more than a "B" word - 7/1/2004 5:27:24 PM   
Sinergy


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When he called me a "bitch" last night, what he was really saying was, "I am angry and frustrated because I can't control you and this is the only way I can think of in this moment to express that."


I think this sentence expresses the profound essence of the (I use the term loosely, bear with me please) mental processes behind the peurile and angry screaming of the word "bitch."

I wear such sobriquets as tiny badges of honor.

*passes around the salad nicoise made from dolphin safe tuna*

Sinergy

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RE: So much more than a "B" word - 7/1/2004 5:40:58 PM   
LadyBeckett


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Status: offline 		Oh and would you mind awfully, passing those delicious crackers as well? Oh Sinergy, you really are delightful!!

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RE: So much more than a "B" word - 7/1/2004 8:37:06 PM   
MistressKiss


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Status: offline 		I love it....that was a great scene in the movie....laughs

I like being a bitch. It's unfortunate that women have to be sometimes, simply to keep up with men. But you are all correct..it's a compliment.

Too bad all guys aren't like some of our regulars here.

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RE: So much more than a "B" word - 7/2/2004 3:22:38 AM   
iwillserveu


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Status: offline 		Even getting out of the lifestyle for a minute that is a term for "un little lady-like" behavior. The definition for how should behave is the one of the person saying "bitch". So considering the source must be involved.

For example, on my city council they had a heated debate on giving themselves a pay raise while laying off everything they can. One woman councilor was against it. She said so vehemently. One councilor who was for it called her a "bitch". If she were a man she'd be sensible. Man or woman, he'd still be an idiot. If no one ever takes the source into consideration, then all women are bitches, all black people ar n-word, all Irish-Americans are drunks, etc.

BTW, thank God for bitches. (Hey, I'm a sub male; I gotta add that.)

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RE: So much more than a "B" word - 7/2/2004 8:07:22 AM   
proudsub


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Bitch? Isn't that the acronym for:

Beautiful
Intelligent
Totally
Confident &
Happy


Love it!! When i had an online Dom he always called me bitch and made me call myself bitch too. Didn't bother me at all.

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RE: So much more than a "B" word - 7/2/2004 3:33:09 PM   
Estring


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Status: offline 		When were you called a bitch Sinergy?

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RE: So much more than a "B" word - 7/2/2004 6:14:15 PM   
Sinergy


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When were you called a bitch Sinergy?


I was gazing at a sunset and burst into tears and my date called me that and
ran off with some simple-minded neanderthals to have a beer in their van.

*plays a sonnet he composed*

Sinergy

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