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Wanting to Turn Pro - 10/28/2007 10:23:11 PM

chamberqueen

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I am looking at starting my own business with two mistresses, one straight and one bi. I was wondering if anyone could point me toward some information that would help to do this. I have already run another business and have the business skills, but I wouldn't know how to aim at the correct clientele, rates, etc. Any help would be appreciated.

This is actually an act of love. My slave (and fiance) was killed in Iraq, and his wishes were that I would always be his mistress by becoming professional so that others could be as fulfilled by me as he was. He asked for the business to be set up in his name if he was killed while away. I want to do this for his memory.

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RE: Wanting to Turn Pro - 10/29/2007 12:37:15 AM

bottombob

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sorry for your loss, but for prices may i suggest contacting other pro doms for suggestions.

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RE: Wanting to Turn Pro - 10/29/2007 12:47:41 AM

MissMagnolia

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There is a board that has Professional Services http://www.collarchat.com/forumid_40/tt.htm

You might find something there, or ladies that you could contact for help.

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RE: Wanting to Turn Pro - 10/29/2007 2:23:22 AM

mons

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greetings

i am deeply sadden for you lost a brave one he was and still is in your memory . there are some pro dommes on AOL if you write me i will give you their names and they can help you OK and again my deeply sorrow for your lost

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RE: Wanting to Turn Pro - 10/29/2007 4:32:36 AM

MsCfromMelbourne

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I would suggest finding out where the professional dungeons are in your area (Texas) and asking out if they offer apprenticeships. Even if they do not, go along for a tour and to offer your services. If nothing else you will find out what services they offer and what they get paid.

Here in Australia we seem to follow the English tradition of pro-dommes being apprenticed before they go into business alone (or with friends).

Also check the laws in your State for what you can and cannot do legally. Prostitution is legal (and heavily regulated) here, so anal penetration, "tie and tease", cock and ball torture and the like are legal (in a licensed brothel). The situation could be very different in Texas.

Finally, other pro-dommes might be the competiton but they are also a source of referrals and help. For example, pro-dommes in my town send one another the cell phone numbers of clients who fail to turn up to appointments. "No shows" are one of the biggest nuisances in their line of work. Many men want to talk about a scene on the phone with you (without paying) and then you get ready and wait for them.

Pro-dommes also warn eachother about crazy, dirty or dangerous clients. Try to break into their circle. You never know when you might need one of them to cover your practice while you go on holidays or the like.

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RE: Wanting to Turn Pro - 10/29/2007 5:01:26 AM

Dnomyar

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Cut the crap. You are doing it because you think it will be easy money.

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RE: Wanting to Turn Pro - 10/29/2007 5:21:41 AM

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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Cut the crap. You are doing it because you think it will be easy money.

Easy money?

Clearly, you have no idea whatsoever of whats involved.

If it were merely a case of getting tarted up and holding a whip, I might agree with you - but it isnt, so I wont.

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RE: Wanting to Turn Pro - 10/29/2007 5:55:55 AM

Dnomyar

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Im not against someone turning pro. It is the reason that she states for doing so I dont believe.

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