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Tigrita -> RE: All Hail any Dom/Owner who labels himself such!! (11/2/2007 8:36:13 AM)
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Why is it when a sub posts asking for advice she/he is immediately told to try and work things out even when she/he has clearly stated that this has been done. He/She is then put through a series of questions by people responding to the post asking for more and more info ...But......When a Dom/Owner posts they usually get definitive answers based on their onesided posts...
Basically, I think that nonsensical, insecure posts looking for life and reltaionship advice get questioned and/or reamed, whether they are from a 'dom' or a sub. It doesn't make sense to most people why someone would post questions about how they should handle a private, intimate mater, when only they are the ones with all the information and feelings to base that decision on. How on earth can a bunch of strangers be more qualified to tell you how to live your life than you are? Sure, maaaaaybe having close friends weigh in, but all this 'my dom is ignoring me, did I hurt his feelings, is he cheating on me, what should I do....?' just makes no sense. These kinds of questions rarely come from d-types, but when they do, they are reamed too, even worse actually, because it doesn't show much self-mastery and confidence expected of a dominant.
Established dominants tend to ask questions that are more philosophical or technical with clean cut answers, or just inviting fun discussion. Lots of the established submissives on here ask questions like that too. It tends to be the newbie submissives who just haven't learned to trust themselves yet who post stuff that just doesn't really make sense.
That is just my observation and opinion. Sorry for the rant.
~ J
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