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RE: Online Collar/Master - 11/26/2007 6:06:18 PM

wonderingslave

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MistressMagnolia....my Master is very aware of this online relationship, I would not be doing this if I did not have his permission.

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RE: Online Collar/Master - 11/27/2007 3:52:31 AM

camille65

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ws as you can see you will get a variety of responses. Some refuse to believe it can be real and some nod and say of course it is real, if it feels real to you.I am in the latter group, if it feels right to you and you get something out of the contact then IMO it is real. My suggestion to you is to remove the concern about how others think. Does it honestly matter to you if a bunch of strangers think/don't think it is real? It should matter only to the participants.

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RE: Online Collar/Master - 11/27/2007 7:55:20 AM

MasterofScyn

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Master and I met through an online game. Evil.. very evil game.... We had known about eachother for at least 4 yrs, never spoken to eachother till one day he made a comment, I responded to it. After so long found out we lived 20-30 mins apart from eachother. A few months later we finally met and the connection was just remarkable.

Online relationships are a'right and all.. to me personally, I don't see how it can be real. All out honesty you seriously don't know who your talking to till you actually meet them, or see them on web cam. Hell a 13 yr old killed herself cuz of some punk mother wanting to find out if this girl was talking trash about her daughter, pretended to be a boy online made the 13 yr fall for her and suddenly broke up with the 13 yr old, calling her all sorts of names and cussing her out yadda yadda.. Don't know the full story, this much I do know... . I'm still laughing about that one.... Sux she had to go and kill her self.. but the reason is severly lame...

Anyway... Online... you can't feel the persons feelings, you can't feel their arms holding you, their lips kissing you. They could be playing you for all you know. Like a previous poster said,

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"I knew one female that would talk really sweet on the phone and online, and then when she got off the phone, etc, she'd yell and curse the person out (iow, they didn't see that side of her). How real is that crap?"

It might be real to some people, but to me on a personal level... It isn't enough. I used to cyber like crazy, fantasize about things, then it got to the point to where it was boring as all hell. All I wanted to do was play the stupid game, but everytime I logged on, some dude wanted me to cyber with them... In the end I was just sitting here like.. ok are you done yet.. "yea, that felt really good".. can I go now.. "ohhh baby"... /yawn.. Sometimes I got so bored with it I pretended the computer died on me and log out of the game just to get rid of the dude for while.

I like to feel and see what the other person is actually feeling, see if what they say is true emotions. Online can't provide that. That's me..

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RE: Online Collar/Master - 11/27/2007 10:29:06 AM

DesFIP

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Of course it's real. You could have a partner currently stationed in Iraq and the only interaction is online and phone. Doesn't mean your feelings aren't just as real as they will be when he gets sent home.

We started online. If it hadn't of felt real to me, then I wouldn't have agreed to meet him. We were LDR for over two years, seeing each other once a month at best. Most of our interaction was online and phone, and it still felt real.

Real isn't the best word to use in this circumstance. It would be more appropriate to ask if this works for you. Because some people can be happy in a LDR and others find it doesn't work for them. Yet both sets of experiences were real for the people involved.

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RE: Online Collar/Master - 11/27/2007 2:16:29 PM

Kana

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For me, and this is just for me, its not real.
The heart of BDSM is based in things like touch and feel, reaching out of self and intersecting with another.
To look in her eyes,
To slide a finger along the base of her spine and watch her entire body react
To hear her soft whimper at the base of her throat when I grab her by her hair
To taste the sweat on her lips when I kiss her during a a scene.
The meshing of the mind and soul that occurs during great sex.
The light that comes across her face when I give her praise.
The feel of her face as she leans against my knees when she kneels.
The curve of her neck
And the joy she brings to me with her presence.

Try as you might, you cannot reproduce that online.

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RE: Online Collar/Master - 11/27/2007 3:54:09 PM

MsterStoney442

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Greetings ,

In answer to yur question . if at this point and time in yur relationship you have real emotions and the feelings of them . Then yes it is real . But to ask any one eles to define real is not within your scope as your Emotions are yours . It is as real as you want it to be thats that .

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