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101mars -> If someone knows you hate them (8/5/2005 8:26:03 PM)

I let someone know I hate them there still hanging around



EmeraldSlave2 -> RE: If someone knows you hate them (8/5/2005 8:27:11 PM)

So this is like junior high?



101mars -> RE: If someone knows you hate them (8/5/2005 8:39:20 PM)

No not at all Jr High was the good old days, actually I am just tryin to figure out the reason nothing more or less. This has been going on for years



KarbonCopy -> RE: If someone knows you hate them (8/5/2005 8:46:20 PM)

Oh we call that Stalking dude.



101mars -> RE: If someone knows you hate them (8/5/2005 8:52:51 PM)

I call it a pain, they should use there time for more important things. I should say I do not really hate them just hate the things thats being done to me. Actually I want them to be happy and have a nice life just they leave me alone since I was the one that was fired



101mars -> RE: If someone knows you hate them (8/5/2005 8:55:00 PM)

I am willing to talk it over to find the answer so they can do more constructive things with there time!



EmeraldSlave2 -> RE: If someone knows you hate them (8/5/2005 10:39:22 PM)

Sounds like immature drama to me.



perverseangelic -> RE: If someone knows you hate them (8/6/2005 12:24:03 AM)

Well, I know there's one person I occationally still write to even though he doesn't respond.

In this situation, I'm hoping there's a chance of reconciliation, given the circumstances of our not-getting-along.

I think it's sometimes a good idea to look at -why- the person is still in contact with you, and how you've told him/her you'd prefer no contact.

The person I'm takling about hasn't ever really told me he doesn't want me to write to him...it's confusing. I figure one e-mail every 6 months isn't too bad.



brightspot -> RE: If someone knows you hate them (8/6/2005 1:36:49 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: 101mars

I let someone know I hate them there still hanging around


(There?...Correct...They're)

I find that to be really Hurtful....Are you serious about the Word Hate?
I think you're being kind of insensitive[:-].


*Brightspot



brightspot -> RE: If someone knows you hate them (8/6/2005 1:39:18 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: EmeraldSlave2



quote:

So this is like junior high?


So Em's Want to skip Gym today??

*Brightspot



kisshou -> RE: If someone knows you hate them (8/6/2005 7:20:30 AM)

First you said you hate them, then you said you don't really hate them. Then you said you wanted them to leave you alone, then you said you wouldn't mind talking to them to tell them to find better things to do with their time.

The other person is receiving all these mixed signals from you. The other person is also getting your attention, so why should they stop bothering you.

They won't move on with their life until you do.



pinkpleasures -> RE: If someone knows you hate them (8/6/2005 7:20:44 AM)

Mars..there is not enough information in your post to help you. And there is nothing we can do anyway. Go to your local police district and ask whether you qualify for a restraining order, based upon what you can prove, and if not, on what the police can assist you to prove (such as trapping calls on the phone). If the "hateful" person's conduct does not rise to the level of a restraining order, then you should (in my opinon) give back nothing...no reaction...no information..zippo. Hopefully you have no mutual friends but if you do they will either have to keep your confidences or hit the road...to be "bothered" for years sounds unbearably stressful. Without any energy from you to feed on, possibly the person will move on.

pinkpleasures



101mars -> RE: If someone knows you hate them (8/6/2005 7:47:59 AM)

Thanks everyone!!!

I'm just not going to worry about it any more. Shall I say not give the fire any more fuel and let it burn out. Hate is a stronge word in my eyes somone that hates another is a weak person, and true I am a bit mixed up about the situration and confused and that is the very reason for the mixed signals. I'm only a man never said to have all the answers just trying to learn the lessions from this life. Sorry if I offended anyone, do have a lovely day

Ztango



KarbonCopy -> RE: If someone knows you hate them (8/6/2005 8:12:59 AM)

Somehow this seems weird comming from someone who is like 36



nella -> RE: If someone knows you hate them (8/6/2005 8:16:20 AM)

Create a World of Warcraft charecter whitt he name or somthing similar to the hated person and jump him or her of a cliff unthil bord, then delete him. Grate way to feel better.



KarbonCopy -> RE: If someone knows you hate them (8/6/2005 8:41:49 AM)

or you could sign up for livejournal and complain about it all day like some emo kid *shrugs* works for them I suppose.



pinkpleasures -> RE: If someone knows you hate them (8/11/2005 9:21:28 AM)

i have no doubt that 101mars has suffered just as he has described and i find the out of hand dismissal disturbing. on another thread we have a woman claiming her Master released because she developed breast cancer and so far i'm the only one saying -- whoa -- this is making my bullshit meter ring. what 101mars has described (and there wasn't much detail) goes on all the time -- though not usually for so long -- and can really mess up a person's life. i for one believe him and hope he gets the assistance he needs to put a stop to it.

pinkpleasures



fastlane -> RE: If someone knows you hate them (8/11/2005 11:38:51 AM)

Go to the pound and rescue the biggest dog there. Sounds like you need man's best friend at your side.



sultryvoice -> RE: If someone knows you hate them (8/11/2005 4:59:11 PM)

Was this truely the proper forum for this kind of matter? I can't see what this has to do with bdsm, D/s, M/s...If I am wrong, please correct me here..But I can't see it any other way..

Respectfully,
sultry



slavedesires -> RE: If someone knows you hate them (8/11/2005 10:40:19 PM)

[:'(]

just trying to get my first paddle......lolololol



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