Termyn8or
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At the gitgo I would like to say that you are too damn young to be going through this. You should post your diet so some of us might find what is wrong, what is missing, or should be. With these kinds of problems you are likely to need more meat and fish, and get your fish from the ocean, not some fish farm. The reasons are not the subject of this post though. More detail if you want it, it is your thread. (trying not to hijack without permission lol)
But to try to give you an answer to your current question, I would say your choice of words is important. If you read the political threads and any alternative news sources you know how they can put a "spin" on things. In linguistics this is analogous (sp) to using english when shooting pool, you make the shot and leave yourself in a better position.
For example "Doc, my Husband and I, we like rough sex, and sometimes he even ties me up, should we not do this or are there some positions that might be harmful ?".
And I think that is pretty much what you are looking for. If you get spanked in the ass, it is not likely to hurt your back, but if you get spanked while restrained in a certain way, who knows.
Generally with back problems anything that stretches you out is usually a good thing. But if you are tied up like a pretzel there could be a problem.
Another thing to go by is your pain level. Whatever you do, if it hurts don't do it. I don't mean the crop or paddle, if you feel pain in the back don't do it, or do it less often if you really must. The doc will probably say something similar.
One poster said the doc probably has seen it all before, I don't agree. I don't completely disagree, but until I really got into searching the net I hadn't seen it all, and still haven't. However I do agree that most likely any doc will handle it in a professional manner, and is bound by confidentiality as well. Human nature being what it is, your story might be told, but the name will not be included. And if the other poster is right, if the doc has seen it all, where did they see it ? They saw it somewhere first. So if you get an intern you might make their day. I think anyone who would want to be a doctor would be a bit curious, after all they didn't become a doctor because they were 'keepin it real'.
Anyway, there is another point, just what do you do ? Getting tied spread eagle is not likely to hurt your back, getting hogtied,,,,well it depends on just how. Suspension should almost be beneficial I would think, unless your condition is very serious. I would think that if you can walk, suspension at the very least shouldn't hurt you.
Many degenerative back problems are a problem due to compressional forces. Nerves get pinched and the like. The back could degenerate quite a bit and you can still function except for one problem, all your nerves are in there. When they start getting pinched it screws you up. If the could move the spinal cord outside the spine, it would solve alot. It would take a hell of alot of degeneration to cause a real physical problem. But both sensory and motor nerves are in there. So it is not just a matter of getting rid of the pain. When it gets worse you lose functionality.
The symptoms you experienced which led you to seek treatment in the first place were caused by nerve irritation. This can cause pain, twiching, numbness in the extremeties and all of that. When the bones in the spine no longer support your weight properly the nerves get pinched. They don't like that, oh brother they don't like that.
So in general, if you take weight off your back it is usually good. To put weight on your back might be bad. You might not want to do pony play, or that Japanese contortionist bondage. Then a rack might be very therapeudic (sp). And there are people who like to wear gnarly back braces (for fetish), I would recommend strongly against anything of the sort. A chastity belt might not be a good idea either. Corsets, I just don't know. They could actually be good for you, or the worst thing in the world. I just don't know.
With your type of problem, if you ever do like to wear a corset, do ask the doc about that.
There are so many kinks out there, it is hard to say who's body can handle what, so I think you asked a very good question for all of us. Perhaps because of my age (I am 2.35 times older than you) I am getting to a new attitude. I am still a social animal, but a different kind now. Damn me for what I am, but I could care less. I was not born to please you, go fuck yourself if you don't like me. And that is for any reason, not just kink. There are many, politics, religion, guns, crime, drinking, smoking (anything), driving.
My attitude has become "I don't have to answer to you, I do not need your approval to do what I do, and you are probably the bimbo who cut me off on the highway and but for my swift and correct action you would've caused a twenty car pileup". That attitude is not specific to anyone. You just get it in your head, they are no better than you. Think, their sex lives are probably not as interesting as yours, that does not make them superior in any way.
That's the turnaround babe, that's when you finally make it. When I got busted for illegal driving wearing a chastity belt, it is such an attitude that kept me together. I just looked them in the eye and explained. One day I'll have to tell that story in full. It was an interesting night to say the least.
Embarrassment is a form of fear. Embarrassment is easier to conquer. Remember this person works for you.
You'll be fine.
T
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