CalgaryDom -> RE: Why would i feel such guilt? (11/15/2007 4:09:39 PM)
Probably because you feel that you could rescue him or help him, but you can't, so let go.
He has to help himself.
If losing a submissive isn't enough to motivate him into getting treatment, nothing you can do will motivate him either.
You can't push a rope. You can't push toothpaste back into the tube. And you can't help someone until they want the help.
LadyLegs -> RE: Why would i feel such guilt? (11/15/2007 4:39:42 PM)
I would suggest that you have survivor's guilt... IMO what you should be feeling guilty about is not asking the d/d free question earlier and protecting yourself.