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RE: Sadistic S-type? - 11/11/2007 9:00:38 PM

MystressDream

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

One of the most ingenious sadists I ever met was a submissive.

I think it's Midori that has some workshops along this line? Submissive sadist/dominant masochist.

Yes, you are correct. Midori does a couple workshops along this line. You walk out of her workshop being told, however, that we are all switches.... and not just in our vanilla lives. <shrug>

Midori herself is a switch, a sadist, a masochist, etc.....

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RE: Sadistic S-type? - 11/12/2007 5:36:31 AM

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ORIGINAL: BoiJen
I know a couple of D-types would consent to a scene and their limits and that's it...they deal otherwise and indulge their need to bottom...no matter how they feel in the moment...and I'm the type to deliver...as I very much enjoy hurting people.

That sounds a lot like plain ol' switching to me, though

i had a friend who was a very creative masochist, and liked to say that "masochism is just sadism turned inwards"... And when i say she was creative, she was always FULL of ideas for ways that other people's Dominants could torment their s-types, and was always more than happy to share them

She even gave us our first bottle of cinnamon oil. i never figured out whether she had a voyeurism thing going, or was being a painslut by proxy, or was just a sadist and masochist rolled into one.

i've got a serious bondage fetish, and i occasionally think about what it would be like to Top somebody who shared that interest just to try out some of the ideas that are always milling around in my head... But for the most part, i'm more the sadist-turned-inward type... Always looking for a way to suggest methods for making things harder on myself, without falling into the "topping from the bottom" trap.

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RE: Sadistic S-type? - 11/12/2007 5:45:21 AM

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Hi petdave,
yes I switch from top and bottom and masochist to sadist. I enjoy both places to be. In reference to my position within a structured power dynamic...I serve. Period.

I also believe that yes I say things to catch MsK's attention and give Her ideas however they never come out quite the way I mean them too lol. That does not mean that my masochism is sadism turned toward me. It means as a masochist I like certain things does to me that I wouldn't do to myself. And as a sadist I like oing things to people that I sometimes like having done to me. In other words...I masturbate like a vanilla person and scene like a lifestyler.

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