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CreativeDominant -> RE: Need for paddling. (11/13/2007 2:04:49 PM)
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ORIGINAL: mckennesaw
I am wondering how many dom/sub relationships are centered around spanking. Last week, I had an overwhelming need for some relief, so a lady acquaintance I have recently met suggested that I let her paddle me. I agreed, so she brought a large wooden paddle, and told me to strip naked and bend over and grab my ankles. She told me that I would be getting 10 hard swats to start out with, but I would earn more if I moved or one of my hands came off my ankle. The paddling really hurt, since I had never been paddled before, so I ended up getting 14 swats. No restraints are used, since the idea is for me to restrain myself. I found that this kind of paddle therapy really eliminates my stress. She now plans to give me a good paddling every week.
I've never centered a relationship around paddling...I have centered scenes around paddling/flogging/spanking but then, I have also done scenes where it did not come into play at all. I've been going over a scene in my head recently wherein no paddling was involved.
I do see it as a good stress reliever for someone that appreciates that type of stress relief but I would not want a submissive to focus only on that as her primary stress reliever. I would not want a submissive to focus on any one thing as the only answer to almost anything. While there are some areas of my relationships where there are few answers, for most areas there are always other ways of coming at the same thing and I want them to be open to that.
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