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elderrook -> RE: Ruined orgasms (11/27/2007 7:03:14 PM)
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My Mistress will frequently ruin my orgasms. We've learned a lot about how to effectively do this, and what sort of effect it has on us afterwards. I thought I'd share what we've learned with you, as you may find this helpful.
A properly ruined orgasm is a climax wherein the male reaches the point of no return, and then all stimulation is immediately removed. This requires a bit of timing and some practice. Stop too soon, and you may get a small dribble of semen, but the male will often still retain his sex drive and be able to climax afterwards. Wait too long, and he will get some satisfaction out of the deal. Timing, as they say, is everything.
Mistress has worked on me long enough that she now knows just the right time to stop stroking me. This process usually involves me tied very tightly down to the bed or some other piece of furniture. She will often tease me for a bit before going to the final act. Other times, she just dives in and goes all the way to the end as fast as possible.
One thing she always makes sure of, is that I don't know which it will be; a good cum, or a ruined orgasm.
As for the deed itself, it's quite an experience. When that moment is there, and you feel the oncoming orgasm reach its peak, it's like that moment on a roller coaster where you just crested that big hill, and the rush down the other side with all it's excitement is right in front of you.
Now imagine the coaster stopping as the track flattens out and someone tells you to step out of the car onto the walkway, as the ride is over. That's as close as I can describe it, and it doesn't even begin to actually describe the deed fully.
It's pretty horrible when it happens. Mistress makes sure I cannot rub my cock on anything to get the desperately needed stimulation. My cock will spurt impotently into or onto whatever she chooses, as I struggle to get some stimulation.
Afterwards, I find it leaves me in a very deep submissive zone. Admittedly, this is after a desperate and often angry moment when I wish I could 'take matters into my own hands'.
I love her having this sort of control over me. Not only does she control when and how I orgasm, she controls if I orgasm. It's a really great thing for her. She loves it. There are times I may wish otherwise, but I'm very glad to have given her such a level of control.
Why do we do this? Well for me, it has a lot to do with the T & D aspects, only taking it further. It's the ultimate form of denial, as afterwards I cannot cum, even if Mistress allows me to masturbate. My seed has already been spent. She has taken my ability to cum from me. She's literally stolen my orgasm. So it also connects to my biggest fetish; restriction and bondage. I am very turned on when Mistress restricts my movement with bondage, and this is an extension of that. She's bound my orgasm, and taken it from me.
As for her, she says it's a really powerful feeling that she can do something to me that feels really terrific or really awful, and I "allow" her to do this willingly. She likes the power to give it or take it as she sees fit.
-rook
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