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Wisconsin sub/slave - 8/8/2005 8:03:13 PM

basesloaded2005

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Hello all !! New to the website, its definately a great website, but i'm still having a hard time meeting Mistresses in my area. I'm new to the BDSM world and would love to be subjected to RT/CBT. Willing to try anything once as long as it does not involve kids, animals, or blood.

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RE: Wisconsin sub/slave - 8/8/2005 11:31:01 PM

onceburned

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Hello and welcome. Finding a domme is tough, there is no doubt about it. But there are some things you can do to help yourself.

First, you need a good profile. There are 150,000 members here at Collarme, so it is easy to get lost in the crowd. Your profile needs to stand out - it needs to present a clear idea of who you are. Currently, your profile doesn't say much except you are new and looking.

Here is a suggested profile outline created by BeachMystress. It is written for dominants but it will be easy to change it to fit you.

The second thing is that you want to avoid the mistakes that new subs make when approaching a domme. I think you will find the advice in 10 Steps For Making A Good First Impression to be very helpful.

The third thing is that you have to make yourself known. The odds are strongly against you - there are many more male subs than there are dommes. So you need to not only search profiles, but also attend munches and participate in online forums such as this - anything you do to get your face and name known will help you.

I am not sure where in Wisconsin you live, but it has a number of munch groups. If you haven't been to a munch you might want to read A Beginner’s Guide to BDSM Munches. If you need help finding a munch near you, might want to check out the links of one of the groups, such as this one: South East Wisconsin Discussion Group. Meeting real people I think is a good way to move forward in your search.

Good luck, and enjoy your stay at Collarme.