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RE: Forced bisexulaity - 4/28/2004 9:16:58 AM

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For someone else it may simply be the thrill of proving their servitude to the woman by doing something they would never do on their own (this would be the tick for me).

I've said this before, and I'll say it again, I don't put tags on sexuality. I am a sexual being. I included that quote from MizSuz because that is really the the tick for me too. Oh yeah!! Within the D/s dynamic is it all about pleasure and it is absolutely all about Mine!

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does she like to see her sub sucking cock?

I absolutely do! It isn't about punishment, or forcing. It is, however, about dedicated service. That service is personal and intimate, part of the whole powerful D/s relationship. You could be talking about washing dishes. Does your Mistress force you to wash dishes? Oh no, I couldn't do that!!

I spoke with a sub the other day who left his previous Mistress because she instructed him to clean the bathroom. He was fine with ironing her clothes, being her footstool, being her ashtray, providing oral service to her, cooking for her, but just couldn't bring himself to clean that bathroom. That was a hard limit for him. He had said "I will do anything, but what he really meant was, anything but the bathroom.

On the sexual thing, I personally believe that we are sexual beings, that we express ourselves by touch, verbally, emotionally, spiritually, and sexually. Society has a "same gender" problem with that...I don't.

If that is a hard limit for one of my subs, we work with it. It hasn't been a problem, and I haven't been disappointed thusfar.

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RE: Forced bisexulaity - 4/28/2004 5:19:27 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyBeckett

On the sexual thing, I personally believe that we are sexual beings, that we express ourselves by touch, verbally, emotionally, spiritually, and sexually. Society has a "same gender" problem with that...I don't.

Amen.

It's about who the person is inside, don't you think? For me, gender is as relevant as color, religious preference, or any of the other Title VII protected classes (and a bunch more that Title VII should protect). Each brings something unique to the table while they are "not" something else.

It's what we do with what's brought to the table that matters to me.

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RE: Forced bisexulaity - 4/30/2004 8:35:06 AM

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As in all BDSM activities, forced bi can be an extrememly pleasureable activity...but the key is, deep communication. A quality Domina will take the time to excavate the innermost parts of the sub's mind and emotion. With this information, and after trust is built, She can then take him beyond what he thinks his limits are. There is no joy in just launching into an activity without a strategy, and an understanding of the sub's deepest needs. Protocol is established by Me...but the freedom in alternative relationships is profound intimacy, and a willingness to go beyond.

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RE: Forced bisexulaity - 5/6/2004 9:21:37 PM

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It completely depnds on your position.

If you are a sub...then no forcing it might not work out...
However,if you are a slave and you have presented yourself as such to your owner. and she says do it...you will do it...

it matters not if you like it or not...
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RE: Forced bisexulaity - 5/27/2004 7:02:31 AM

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yes i think she would love to see her sub sucking a cock and yes the sub would start to enjoy it to please!!

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RE: Forced bisexulaity - 5/27/2004 7:17:10 AM

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yes myself i would love that!

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RE: Forced bisexulaity - 6/3/2004 10:07:57 AM

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devozione, If you are presenting yourself as a slave, then you in essence state you have no limits. If you are a submissive, then I cannot see a true dominant releasing you for having limits, if you have listed that particular play as a limit beforehand. Respect of phobias, limits and needs are a large part of a dominants attraction to a male/female submissive. If the dominant you are with does not respect your limits, then possibly being released would not be a totally bad thing to happen. Sundew

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RE: Forced bisexulaity - 6/30/2004 5:59:22 PM

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i like what you said but as for forceing cock sucking. This is a must 4 to 5 lrg cocks and be rough while the sucking is happening tied up is best

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RE: Forced bisexulaity - 6/30/2004 6:38:32 PM

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I've said this before, and I'll say it again, I don't put tags on sexuality. I am a sexual being. I included that quote from MizSuz because that is really the the tick for me too. Oh yeah!! Within the D/s dynamic is it all about pleasure and it is absolutely all about Mine!

I would have to go back and read my notes to remember which second wave feminist stated that one of the biggest tragedies and/or fallacies is the idea that people are either heterosexual or bisexual or homosexual or...

Her contention is that people can be "polymorphously perverse" as the situation and requirements change. An example of this are incarcerated men. A large number of men who consider themselves heterosexual spend much of their time behind bars having sex with other men, and would not dream of having sex with men when they are out of prison.

A person's sexuality has some hard/soft wired basis, but the situation and environment a person finds themselves in also impacts a basic human need, in my opinion.

Having said this, I dont actually consider a heterosexual male slave giving head to another man to be technically "bisexual." He may not be wired to be sexually excited (as far as I know) by other men, but he is probably wired to be sexually excited to do whatever is asked of him in his Mistress' service.

If it works for the people in the relationship, I wish them success in their endeavors.

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RE: Forced bisexulaity - 7/4/2004 4:26:46 PM

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In my case, huh is all I can say. I don't consider forced bi a form of punishment. And nor does it turn me on, I can take it or leave it. I'll entertain it only for a professional relationship.

As for my personal life I will have nothing to do males who have this desire/fetish/fantasy. Bi males need not apply for a personal relationship, they won't be considered. I have no desire to see the love of my life having sex of any form with someone else, so I won't be ordering him to suck cock for me anytime in this lifetime.

I am one jealous, possessive bitch and I don't share well with others.

And I am highly offended by the fist fucking photo some asshole posted in this thread. That was rude and uncalled for and completely off topic.

< Message edited by MistressZanthia -- 7/4/2004 4:30:27 PM >

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