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RE: Ever feel used - 11/19/2007 4:51:05 AM

trusting

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i would never have an online/over the phone relationship. some people are ahppy with this, but i could not see myself submitting to a person i had never laid my eyes on!

if He only speaks to you when He wants to 'get off' maybe He is after that and only that? He is the one in control though, you gave Him that right obviously. you will either have to deal with it or end things with Him.

never be a free 'phone whore' to anyone, there are plenty of Men on here that are only here to get exactly what you are giving this man... the choice is all up to you.

just thought i would throw in my two cents! good luck...

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RE: Ever feel used - 11/19/2007 5:49:10 AM

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Cyber play is cyber play, and nothing more.
You only have to go onto any kind of dating sight on the net to work out there is a whole world full of wankers out there waiting for their next orgasm to log on.
I think the only thing he has Mastered is typing with one hand.

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RE: Ever feel used - 11/19/2007 9:19:22 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: downndirty20

What do you do if your master (in my case only online right now) doesnt want to speak to you unless your having a session. am I being used or is it just how it is? Im totally new to the scene please forgive me if this sounds really dumb.

You're not dumb, just new. The internet contains all kinds of ideas about D/s including online relationships (whatever that is). i was never able to have the experience of actually being in a relationship with anyone until it became live. For me online is online, just as you and i are now. Do you think you know me? Do i know you? Nope. We could talk for months and posture and pose, but i don't honestly think anyone really knows another person up close and personal until they have experienced them up close and personal. This doesn't mean we don't learn about one another if both parties are honest, sincere and have the same intentions. Unfortunately it appears that that's rarely the case. i never wasted much time online - a few chats then phone, then meeting. i never made any commitment to anyone i had never met in person. That just wasn't my thing.

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