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ben wah balls? - 11/17/2007 9:10:39 PM   
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Hi all,

Not sure this rates as bondage gear, but here goes.. I feel kinda stupid asking about this, but where else can I ask? LOL
I have two sets of ben-wah balls, one gold plated and one covered in latex (mmmm for that new car smell!) and have never been able to get them to DO anything. The directions on the most recent set say "insert and rock your way to intense pleasure!".  :P
I have tried inserting them, and doing all kinds of things, sitting, lying, standing, riding in a car - nothing. Is there a specific spot they are supposed to stimulate? Does anyone have any advice for how to make them DO something? LOL
Thanks in advance for any help,
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RE: ben wah balls? - 11/17/2007 9:47:59 PM   
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Hmmm, I never knew they were supposed to do anything. I always thought they were more for exercising the pelvic floor muscles. I have a set of something called Pleasure Balls... they are bigger and connected to each other by a short cord. They have a ball bearing inside that sorta rolls around. They get me a bit aroused by no where near getting off.

Sorry I couldn't be of more help.

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RE: ben wah balls? - 11/17/2007 11:15:10 PM   
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Ladies,

I don't want to embarrass y'all by answering your feminine questions, what with my picture of elephants fucking and all, but, you know, you have to do a little research about your pussy aids before you go ahead and insert them.  There are MAGNETIC benwa balls, and those are supposed to inch closer to each other, or perhaps generate an electromagnetic pussy field, or whatever, and reports say that that can be pleasurable.  Otherwise, if you're just using ordinary benwa balls, you have to make them move YOURSELF.  Have you heard of Kegel exercises?  In a nutshell, try squeezing the, umm, pussy wall muscles.  With the balls in, of course.  See if that does anything for ya.

Also, they sell little Chinese balls with little bells inside them.  They go tinkle tinkle chime chime as you move them up and down your canal.  So be careful if you do this in the office.  Someone might recognize the sound.  There are connoisseurs lurking in every corner.

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RE: ben wah balls? - 11/17/2007 11:20:11 PM   
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Dahling,
 
Find yourself a big Harley Davidson with a hot biker guy attached to it and go for a long ride down a bumpy country dirt road.  Failing that, sit on a washing machine during the spin cycle or use a vibrator with the balls. 
 
Enjoy your sexercise!
 
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RE: ben wah balls? - 11/17/2007 11:21:25 PM   
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Right, or pump up the bass on your stereo and sit on it with your balls inside you.  Remember that stupid movie with Howard Stern?

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RE: ben wah balls? - 11/18/2007 3:54:19 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Vendaval

Find yourself a big Harley Davidson with a hot biker guy attached to it and go for a long ride down a bumpy country dirt road.   
 
Vendaval
 


Yes!!  That's what i did and i highly recommend it.  my Hot Biker Guy doesn't have to drive down bumpy roads for the ben-wa balls to do their magic.  Just being a Hot Biker Guy, along with His "Other Bitch" makes for the best possible three-some a girl like me could ask for.

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RE: ben wah balls? - 11/18/2007 10:39:41 AM   
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Also some women find them to be so small they are not that fun.  the Chinese hand exercise balls come in several sizes that are way bigger than typical ben wa balls and also vibrate a bit when they chime.  You could try those.  The other suggestions people have had are great too.  I like to practice Kegel exercises with benwa balls.  It doesn't get me off, but is very arousing.

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RE: ben wah balls? - 11/19/2007 11:39:56 AM   
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Not sure if it's the kind of thing you'd be interested in, but one of the books in my collection cites the "ultimate orgasm" as being easily acheived by inserting ben-wa balls and then having anal sex (or the simulation there-of, I suppose).

My recommendation: make a list of everybody's suggestions, and then go through them one by one (preferably without stopping :)



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RE: ben wah balls? - 11/24/2007 6:12:19 PM   
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I'm sure everyone already knows this, but considering what the previous poster recommended I'd like to remind everyone not to put the be-wa balls in the rectum, they could work their way up inside and require surgery to remove. Just a warning!

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RE: ben wah balls? - 11/25/2007 7:26:30 AM   
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I agree that regular ben-wa balls dont do much.  Try some of the newer balls with a smaller ball inside a larger one.  They more everytime you do.  Much more stimulation.

http://www.sub-shop.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&ProdID=3875

http://www.extremerestraints.com/insertable-smart-balls_434.html

http://www.extremerestraints.com/gravity-sex-balls_1602.html

Ther is also a set of 3 gold balls on a string, each has a smaller ball inside, but I cant find a link at the moment. 

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RE: ben wah balls? - 11/25/2007 7:49:46 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: queerandcurious

I'm sure everyone already knows this, but considering what the previous poster recommended I'd like to remind everyone not to put the be-wa balls in the rectum, they could work their way up inside and require surgery to remove. Just a warning!


The way I took the post to mean was that the ben wah balls are inserted vaginally and then anal sex is performed to acheive the orgasm


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RE: ben wah balls? - 11/30/2007 9:52:16 AM   
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Right, Maya.. I guess I should have been more specific, hehe.

Balls in the vagina, yes! <blush>

Oh, and I had another thought.  Ben was in the the vagina, plug in the rear, both tied in (rope, tight thong, whatever)-- and a good spanking. Doesn't that just sound delightful?

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RE: ben wah balls? - 12/3/2007 9:57:06 AM   
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i never let my slave take the balls out of her  i want them to stay there for at least 1 year they must not fall out until i take them out myself  or make her push them out one at a time

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RE: ben wah balls? - 12/4/2007 2:38:47 PM   
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quote:

Knottynymph wrote: Ben was in the the vagina

OK, who else completely misread that?

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RE: ben wah balls? - 12/4/2007 2:40:08 PM   
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mastertom0071 wrote: i never let my slave take the balls out of her i want them to stay there for at least 1 year

You have heard of toxic shock syndrome?

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RE: ben wah balls? - 12/5/2007 8:51:23 AM   
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i dont belive that will happen bnut i ndo know what will happen if they cum out of her and so does she

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RE: ben wah balls? - 12/5/2007 6:34:13 PM   
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I really hope that you are not serious.  You could cause her to have a very serious infection.  Don't you know that if you break your toys, you can't play with them any more!

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RE: ben wah balls? - 12/5/2007 6:48:09 PM   
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Love f-ing my slave with balls in her vagina. doin her vagina, doin her ass. makin herwalk around holding them in,
then taking advantage when not suspecting, making her go out without undies, in a skirt holding them in!
Then taking advantage when not suspecting ];>

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RE: ben wah balls? - 12/5/2007 7:51:17 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Vendaval

Dahling,
 
Find yourself a big Harley Davidson with a hot biker guy attached to it and go for a long ride down a bumpy country dirt road.  Failing that, sit on a washing machine during the spin cycle or use a vibrator with the balls. 
 
Enjoy your sexercise!
 
Vendaval


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RE: ben wah balls? - 1/12/2008 8:11:47 PM   
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here is a website....

http://calmspirit.net/jade_pearls/jade_ben_wa_balls.htm

and here is what it says.... it might help.

                    Ying Yu Jade Ben Wa Kegel Balls

Ben Wa Kegel exercise balls improve the muscular strength of the vagina. Each use will increase the tone of the muscles that (1) stop the flow of urine, (2) cause clitoral erection during sexual arousal, (3) rhythmically contract during sexual orgasm and (4) support the bladder, uterus and rectum. Asian women have used these for centuries to tighten vaginal and bladder muscles while providing pleasurable sensations. These are in natural Chinese jade. Jade energy is highly associated with the body qi (energy) and promote good health. They are 20 mm round, smooth and highly polished. They are pure and natural A quality.

A Chinese doctor and I designed these to be the best size for women. He says that using the jade ben wa balls is "vaginal kung fu" because it strengthens and tones and gives that part of the body more power and feeling of well being. Doing kegal exercises is easier when you have an object for feedback about what you're doing. Most people who do kegals aren't doing them with enough effort, and these can help. And jade is related to the body qi, energy. Jade energy is healing to the body, and jade qi and body qi work together. That's one of the reasons Chinese people love jade. It's natural stone, smooth, and is compatible with the body.

The original ben wa balls had mercury inside that was supposed to make them rock around inside a woman's vagina while she did "housework". Then she supposedly got so turned on so that when hubby came home she'd be ready to go at it. After the mercury leaked and killed a few women, they were outlawed. Most of he ones made today are metal balls that don't have anything inside. Jade ben wa balls are heavy and natural and energetically compatible with your body.
To use the jade Ben Wa Kegel balls, insert both of them and use the vaginal muscles to keep them inside.Kegel exercise is intended to improve the muscle strength. Locate your pelvic floor muscles by imagining you are interrupting your urine stream. Slowly tighten and hold for 10 seconds, then relax for 10 seconds. Repeat 10 times. Next, try a quicker squeeze and release of the same muscles, which is a faster move that works different muscles. Squeeze and release in rapid succession 10 times. Do one set of fast and one set of slow kegels each day, working up to three sets of both daily. Ben Wa balls give you feedback because you can feel the balls moving.
Some women report that they enjoy the subtle stimulation produced by wearing Ben Wa Balls as they go about their daily tasks, others report that they only enjoy using them during partner play. The proper positioning of the balls, if you are aiming for g-spot stimulation, would be up in the front of the vagina. The only place you should not aim for is up behind the cervix toward her back. She's not likely to feel them very much, and they may not be able to move around her vagina very well.

They can also be used during intercourse. Both men and women have described using Ben Wa balls during intercourse increase the pleasure for both of them.
To remove, squat down, and sweep your finger to the back of your vagina.
To clean, wash after using with soap and water, or boil them, and wrap them in a soft cloth.
No returns on these, for obvious reasons!.
The American Urological Association will include Ying Yu Jade's deep green ben wa balls in their exhibit "Sexuality:Perception and Performance" in the Urologic History Museum in Linthicum, Maryland.
These are pure and natural jade and the color of the balls you receive will vary.

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