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Sirsinini -> RE: Submissives Teaching/Guiding Dominants (11/18/2007 6:55:52 PM)
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ORIGINAL: kyraofMists
As a contrast to the Fixer Uppers thread, didnt read it...how many submissives/slaves are comfortable with helping their dominant/master be a better person, learn new skills or guide them along a particular path? When Sir found my profile on an alternative site, I had written I need these things you mention.
Yes, I can run a self employed business, tell the mechanic what is wrong with my car, fix a leaky faucet, but I had a need to give this up. Sir has had more experience than I ever had in relationships with subs. I dont need to to teach him anything, except tell him about me openly and honestly.
Sir knew I was not into pain in our sexual activity; he also knew I saw a counselor regularly. But he soon learned I had a fondness for the flogger, his hand on my ass (discipline and erotically) and some other yummy stuff.
My counselor was not a threat to him....infact, we joke about why I pay my therapist when they both repeat each other.
How many dominants are comfortable with a submissive teaching, guiding or helping them? I would not have agreed to be Sir's property if this was not part of what he gave.
Does it conflict with the authority dynamic within your relationship? Why or why not?
NO! I submit to my Sir. He recognizes that the employment authority is necessary and helps me with balance. He knows it is necessary for me to see my therapist and does not dis the authority she has, but rather encourages it and compliments it.
Curious minds would like to know [;)]
I like your curious mind....I have one too....
Knight's Kyra
Sir's devoted property
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