GabrielleSlave -> RE: The Secret Lives of Women (12/5/2007 4:40:34 AM)
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Hi (i am taking a deep breath, i know i will get flack for this but...) Before i was into this lifestyle i would never in a million years have wanted someone with any fetish at all coming into contact with my children (they are 5 and 3), i didn't and would not have understood it. i now do realise and understand completely that you are no danger to anyone, child or otherwise, but no other parent outside the scene will want to understand, let alone give you a chance... They will all watch a programme like that, if only to say to eachother the next day "did you see those wierdos on tv last night?" Please understand, i am not being judgmental, i think that most fetishes (my own included!) are valid, wonderful and life enhancing. However, i am warning you about the backlash that will be inevitable. You simply must tell your employer, they may suffer from a drop in business being associated with kink in a childcare setting. By telling them, you can get your side of the story across to them, they may even be supportive enough to send a letter to the parents already using the centre. If you go to them in good faith, give them your trust, you may find that this is a storm in a teacup... i sincerely hope so. i do not want to be the bringer of doom and gloom here, i applaud you for not hiding, for bringing more fetishes out into the light. Afterall, if it helps someone to realise that they are too, perfectly normal then hooray! i just want you to be sure about what you are doing... Good luck and best wishes Gabrielle x
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