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RE: Advice Needed - 7/5/2004 9:04:06 PM

LearningSlave

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Sigh. Look she did not define it as a punishment more like left it as a open ended iam not talking to you. What would you have me do. Agree that i made a mistkae i do. Learn form it o i certainly have. But am i to just sit and stew in limbo when she may or may not decide i am worth her time. I think i am but clearly its not up to me.

No the best thing to do is learn form the experiance and move on chalk it up to the trail and error that is life. I appericate the input form everybody.

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RE: Advice Needed - 7/5/2004 9:06:14 PM

LadyAngelika

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ORIGINAL: LearningSlave

What would you have me do.

Follow your instincts

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RE: Advice Needed - 7/6/2004 10:26:08 AM

MistressDREAD

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LadyAngelika
Woman and Men
Dominants and submissives
or slaves
all have differing views on
BDSM issues.
If sumone asks a question of
a certain area it is with the idea
in their minds that they want
those folks in that areas opinion.
That doesent mean that others
from other areas will not give an
opinion if they feel they have sumthing
to offer but then again when others
go into areas that are not for them and
make snide comments to the subject
matter they are in My opinion lessing
that persons question and need to know
from the Group that the question was asked
of. I dident think sum advice here in the way
it was presented was warrented. Im sure that
if learning felt that her feelings in her head and
advice needed would of been answered by
the subs and slaves or the Masters she would
of asked the question in Their areas she did not
but posted it here. But My point is that the Mistresses
here pretty much were in concensus as to whats
going on but the new slave dident heed The experianced
Mistresses advice which was asked for in the first place
but a sub male with a rather snide comment to the situation
of which by his negitive comment no doubt hit a nerve of
sumthing that he also had experianced and dident like.
I hope this has answered your question LadyAngelika or
at least My Opinion of what I seen.

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RE: Advice Needed - 7/8/2004 4:37:46 AM

LadyAngelika

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ORIGINAL: MistressDREAD
I hope this has answered your question LadyAngelika or at least My Opinion of what I seen.

It did shed some light. I guess I'll hang out around a little longer and see what I gather from it all.

Thanks for your reply.

Lady Angelika

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RE: Advice Needed - 7/8/2004 9:23:07 AM

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I agree with Estring. From what I've read you've just proved her right. You don't respect or value her.

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RE: Advice Needed - 7/8/2004 9:30:21 AM

LearningSlave

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I was upset becasue i thought she was done with me it was my way of telling me self i do not care what happens. I was worng and out of line she has been gracious enough to take me back and is working with me. I appericate everyones input it is good to get presprictive. I am still young and very new to all of this these things grow in time. Thanks againg to every one for there advice.

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RE: Advice Needed - 7/8/2004 9:41:24 PM

Sinergy

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LearningSlave,

I have read your responses to the people who have responded to your original post, and I must say I agree with them.

You ask what can you do, what should you do, and then you become defensive and even combative when people give you answers you do not want to hear. I dislike getting into conflict with people, so I am unlikely to respond to similar things levelled at me. Not my place to insist, but perhaps a bit of self-evaluation of yourself and your actions might be a good choice for you?

I would suggest that you need to decide whether you are going to fish or cut bait. You signed on to being her submissive, she sounds as if she has stated the guidelines by which this will happen, and you are having issues with her guidelines.

1) Consent to being her submissive and start BEING her submissive. This involves you SUBMITTING to her.

or

2) Give her your collar back and move on.

I wish you success whatever you decide to do.

Sinergy

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