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why all the tears? - 2/16/2004 3:00:54 AM

1prettypussi

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i am curious if it is just me or if other submissives or slaves cry when feelings of submission fill them. Tears fill my eyes and stream down my face in responce to something as simple as kneeling at my Masters feet and He strokes my hair and calls me His beautiful pet. it feels like my heart has opened up and i am overwhelmed with emotion.
Other times i may cry great sobs of dispair just knowing i have let Him down and He is disappointed in me.
Is this normal? Some answers would help me know if something is wrong with me or if this is a natural reaction.
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RE: why all the tears? - 2/16/2004 5:17:06 AM

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I am a guy, so it is probably not perspective you wanted, but...:)

Emotions are embarrassing things that can only be shown when you are good and drunk.:)

OK, seriously, I have heard that some men in prolonged periods of chastity get more emotional than normal for a healthy, emotionally cripple, American male.

(No, I don't know that from experience, my max has been three weeks – I'm talking months.)

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RE: why all the tears? - 2/16/2004 10:18:45 AM

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Pretty,
It is very normal. I find this emotion overwhelming me as well. The tears for me are of happiness and amazement that this man I love so much lets me sit at his feet and serve him.
Then there are the tears of despair as well. Knowing that I have displeased him can be oh so overwhelming as well. Just on a different level. So don't feel out of sorts about this. It is normal.
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RE: why all the tears? - 2/16/2004 1:12:06 PM

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i cry for happy, i cry for sad....sometimes i do not even know why. one meeting with Master, i knelt at His feet and kissed His legs, up and down, my tears flowing with gratitude for His presence... On our last occasion together, as He was leaving, i burst into tears suddenly, without knowing why. i did not know i was never to see Him alive again.
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RE: why all the tears? - 2/19/2004 6:01:09 AM

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*please understand the use of Master/slave as a term of reference*

This girl believes there are a number of things at play....

1. depends to some degree on how sensitive or emotional the personality of the slave naturally is and how close to the surface emotions of any kind are at any given time. The enotional level of a person does not stop because they are slave, unless they are trained in that way.

2. there are few relationships more intense and deep than that of a Master and slave and the depth of it would be expected to tap into deep emotional feelings. One cannot give themselves to another without it.

3. many believe a Master has the right to ALL that a slave is, and a slave has no right to withhold anything. Therefore, tears (as well as other emotions) are His to call forth, at any time and for any reason. They are in many circumstances something that bind the slave and Master even closer together.

4. there are times that a Master releases in the slave things long hidden, denied or otherwise not even acknowledged. This is cathartic and very deep (many times not volitional) and allow the slave to bring a base honesty to her responses, which bypass intellectual thought or reasoning. The slave simply responds.
The profound feeling of being less than the girl should be, having disappointed the Master, having faltered or failed, is an all encompassing and engulfing emotion. Is it sadness, humiliation, guilt, self anger, a need to atone, to have Master see how deeply the girl regrets what has happened? It is all of that and more.

This girl believes that the tears belong to the Master, and as such the girl has no right to put them in check, to deny them, or to hide them from the Master. If they are not something the Master wishes to be in evidence, He will train the slave to release those emotions in another fashion. Instead, the tears should make the slave proud. If for no other reason that once again, they show her acceptance and the honesty of her powerlessness.

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RE: why all the tears? - 2/23/2004 12:05:16 PM

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i found that once i surrendered tears flowed freely at any given moment and i had always prided myself as being one that wouldn't cry. Once i realized that the yearning in me to let down my walls was a yearning for surrender and craving for submission. The emotional involvement of surrender and submission is absolutely amazing and i find that the tears are not those of sorrow but those of overwhelming love, devotion and acceptance.

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RE: why all the tears? - 2/29/2004 3:26:12 PM

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pretty pussy,are absolutely normal... i too have those very feelings .. When i know i have upset or disappointed Master i would like to crawl into a corner and cry quietly. But th4e times when i am sitting at His feet there is such a feeling of inner peace, like i have known forever that this is where i belong. It is a feeling you can't really describe, almost like a form of sub space.
And just a while back Master and i were playing in a way we had done before but more involved and i cried. Which surprised me as i had not done that in a scene before. But again , the feelings, Wow....
Tears and submission seem to go hand in hand for many of us. For many different reasons.
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RE: why all the tears? - 2/29/2004 6:39:53 PM

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I've cried and not known why. Actually, after reading all of your posts, I guess I didn't UNDERSTAND why. I've found that in the couple of weeks that I have started reading and writing on these boards, I've learned so much about myself. I've also learned so much more than any of my Masters taught me about the lifestyle. For that I cry. I also thank all of you for your experince and wisdom. I thought that I was just overly sensitive at times. I've always tried to hold it back and keep it to myself. :(

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RE: why all the tears? - 7/13/2005 2:41:19 AM

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yeah. i'm a guy too. and i guess it must be a female thingy.

as to chastity......"i" have not had sex since 2001. so THAT couldn't be it in MY case.

"i" just don't cry. i haven't cried since my ole man left us in '73 and i layed him to rest.
and i didn't cry then either.

don't know really. kept it bottled up so long i don't know what it is anymore. one wall i never let down. maybe never will.???????

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RE: why all the tears? - 7/13/2005 5:39:44 AM

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People cry when their emotions get intense. Vanilla women cry at their weddings all the time.

While I would say to be careful that these emotions don't overwhelm you and make you unable to do what you need to do, it's perfectly normal to have outpourings of emotions. Sorry you even felt worried enough to have to ask the question about it.

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RE: why all the tears? - 7/13/2005 3:28:27 PM

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I am totally perverted. I like tears on my cock; I don't care what causes them.

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