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RE: Getting naked - 12/2/2007 11:22:46 AM   
MistressDoMe


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Status: offline 		I don't play on a first meet, so no need for either of us to get naked.
But I might consider making the submissive get naked for the hell of it and checking
him out.

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RE: Getting naked - 12/2/2007 3:06:28 PM   
Darkhaven80


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Status: offline 		If someone phrased it for "inspection", I would be offended anyway. I think the first meeting is too soon for the most part, people need to get to know each other. It all depends on the relationship though. I'd feel uncomfortable as hell so soon, but I'm naturally shy in the first place.

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RE: Getting naked - 12/2/2007 5:49:14 PM   
Vendaval


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Status: offline 		The situation and the context make all the difference.  If I am at a nude beach or swing club that changes the social expectations.  But for meeting face to face at a restaurant or coffee shop, clothing is required. 

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RE: Getting naked - 12/2/2007 6:01:56 PM   
slaveofKaos


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Status: offline 		On my first meeting with my past Masters and with my present Master I have had to get naked on the first meeting. I am a big person, but have come to tell myself in my head " he is going to see me naked eventually, and he wants to see me now, well best to get it out of the way, so if he doesnt like what he sees we dont waste our time." I have asked some of them what they think that m willing to do that on a first meeting and they have all said just about the same thing which was that they respected me more because of it because it showed self confidence, obedience, and trust. I have also gone on cam naked before and had the same experiences. Do what is comfortable to you though, not everyone is willing or wanting to.

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RE: Getting naked - 12/7/2007 5:56:27 AM   
BossyShoeBitch


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Darkhaven80

If someone phrased it for "inspection", I would be offended anyway. I think the first meeting is too soon for the most part, people need to get to know each other. It all depends on the relationship though. I'd feel uncomfortable as hell so soon, but I'm naturally shy in the first place.

I love the inspection aspect of this all.  I was in 3rd grade when the mini series "Roots" came out.. I vividly remember the scene where the slaves were naked and on display like livestock. The people who were there to bid on them, all dressed very properly, inspected their bodies like cattle, making reference to genatalia size, hip size, etc..   All I can tell you is that I was squeezing my thighs together so tightly I thought they might fuse together!!

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RE: Getting naked - 12/7/2007 6:06:06 AM   
sweetsubPa


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Status: offline 		It's not so much being naked that bothers me, as it is getting naked on cam. I just don't think it's a good idea or that anyone should really expect that.

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RE: Getting naked - 12/7/2007 6:08:21 AM   
dawntreader


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Status: offline 		i am with BSB on this one
 
The inspection aspect is very hot!
 
Believe it or not, i still blush and as i write this i am blushing - but i have been naked for inspection on more first meets than i care to say for fear of appearing a total slut!

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RE: Getting naked - 12/7/2007 6:28:36 AM   
ghitaPVH


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Status: offline 		I guess it depends on what Im meeting them for....if its someone we hooked up with at a swingers website or party, well...more than likely Im gonna get naked at some point during the evening. In the past, when I was dating, well..Im a slut and a good bit of the time Id fuck on the first date.....but there were times when it wasnt appropriate so I didnt...only once did I ever actually have a Dom do the whole strip in the name of an inspection type thing. And although I thought it was a bit weird, it was kinda hot...

oh, and I dont cam. for anyone...dont even own a cam...never have...

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RE: Getting naked - 12/7/2007 6:42:00 AM   
Gardenista


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Status: offline 		I'm no angel and have had one-night stands before, so I have gotten naked on the first meet, just not in a D/s context. Nudity in itself has never been a big shameful point to me at all. I've been to a few clothing-optional events before, so I've been happily naked amongst total strangers. If my husband, for some reason, developed a kink that involved me stripping for strangers on webcam, it wouldn't bother me.

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RE: Getting naked - 12/7/2007 7:43:00 AM   
camille65


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quote:

ORIGINAL: dawntreader

i am with BSB on this one
 
The inspection aspect is very hot!
 
Believe it or not, i still blush and as i write this i am blushing - but i have been naked for inspection on more first meets than i care to say for fear of appearing a total slut!
 Totally agree with you both on this one, an 'inspection' is a hot hot hotttttttttt thing for me. I go insta-goo when my dom does it, we only see each other every 3 months or so and it just sets the tone for everything. Yum.Sometimes it feels like a first meet all over again because of the time between meets so he pushes me over my emotional hurdle by immediately having me strip then *ahem* *cough* *blush* does his inspection thing. It was a serious part of my sexual fantasies from a young age, something I couldn't really admit because of the very reaction seen in some of the posts here but it is the only humiliation act that I like. It is an act of complete submission for me to be so exposed. Quite literally exposed!

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RE: Getting naked - 12/7/2007 7:57:49 AM   
dawntreader


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Status: offline 		And to not only be inspected but to "pass"! (and yes, i have failed before so it is not always a given)

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RE: Getting naked - 12/7/2007 7:59:13 AM   
MasterSohun


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Status: offline 		let me differentiate between to actions,first meeting and first sesiion i might not expecxt to have her naked on first meet but probably duriing our first session,they probably wont happen the same night,during first session i would expect to inspect the slaves body,now that might not even include a sex encounter,but i agree with most this is up to the dynamic between the Master and slave

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