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DommeBMFS -> RE: Spotting a fake... (8/15/2005 7:33:07 AM)
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Oooh! Well...hmm. Hello ! Nice to meet everyone. :) I am a dominant female and um, rather new to practicing, but rather old in, shall we say 'spirit'? Also, have had friends in the life/style for 14 years.
While I'd like to read each and every single post here on this thread immediately, I must admit I only scanned them and fell immediately akin to many, and I, well..errrrr....rushed to express which strict guidelines I adhere to in order to ensure I'm not getting 'taken.' Ahh....they don't always work and I refine them continually.
First of all, as a natural domme, I get asked all the time if I am 'prodomme' *cringes, mouth gets salty at the idea*. *sigh* My general response: "No, I am not prodomme and have never stripped, danced, whored or sold drugs for money. Yes, I am REAL."
But, I digress. I have been pushed, prodded, poked and generally provoked into resisting being the 'stereotypical' Domme. I have THE most deliciously creative ways of using kindness... as, well, a weapon, as I must at times. My tongue IS sharp at times. I LIKE good manners EVERYWHERE I go, no matter whether dom / sub / slave / tg / tv/ ts / ponygirl / ponyboy ...uh...it's pretty inclusive.
In any case, and more to the point, here's what I stormed up:
A FAKE MIGHT:
1) ....Say that it's time to 'get even'--that MAY be real, yep...real SCARY. I seriously worry about the sex in their violence;
2) No face pics, neither webcam;
3) Yep, upon first conversation one doesn't agree that they have any limits at all -hard or soft- and shows me their dick instead of their face, which is not what I ASKED to see in the FIRST place- hrm;
4) I only hear from them in the am-as in 'morning wood is good';
5) If one can't say 'boo' outside their bdsm fantasy world to let me know their first name;
6) Throws their phone number out as if it were a 900 number;
7) Labels anything that moves, and deragatorily;
8) Thinks that 'training' begins below the neck;
9) Giggles when I say 'condom'----and doesn't talk about it at all;
10) Has more toys than Saint Niclaus himself....JUST FOR ME...oh, and WELL--- promises to buy EVERYTHING together: including a new car for me. *bats Her eyes...NOT*
Eh, those are my top ten 'triggers' to question sincerity, I suppose.
All the BEST to ALL;
DommeBMFS
aka LadyCie
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