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hello A/all
Have a problem... I have this guy at work (vanilla totaly) that has ask me out on a date. i told him i was involved but he is being persistant, he has been coming to my department with excuses of "i had to do this or that over here". I try to ignore him and he just continues to ask me out and tells me things about his life and how he would treat me so well (lol) can someone tell me how i get this guy off my back? I almost blurted out today to him that i am a submisive and no way would he ever foot the bill as a Dom. Is there a way to tell him i am in the lifestyle and get him to leave me alone without risking the whole place knowing?

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ORIGINAL: tigress31047

thank Y/you all so much for the advice... I did think about telling Him i was a lesbian...and still might .. that would certaintly put an end to any further problems with other guys as well.