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just a question - 12/3/2007 7:14:27 AM

mhawk

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i' not sure if this is the right place to ask this but ill give it a shot.

to start i live and serve my Lord and His wife,who is a switch and my Mistress.

over the weekend She had a christmas party at Her workplace.

at one point after She was done getting ready She came out adn asked me how She looked.now i had always thought since first seeing Her that She is a beautiful person,but when She asked i kept my head lowered and had difficulty in being able to answer Her.When She asked again about it i barely got the words out that "if i say anything i might get in trouble"(jokingly of course).

when i saw Her come out of that room with the outfit She had on i was floored by Her beauty.

later that night when She got in we talked about it more,and i explained that She had really thrown me for a loop,i have not been that much in awe of someone's beauty in a long time and now being their slave,most of the time more to Her than our Lord,which is fine by all of us.

part of me felt really guilty in realising that i found Her to be beautiful.

i know how this sounds but what i am wondering is this. is it allright to be ale to admit that a slave finds their Mistress to be beautiful?

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RE: just a question - 12/3/2007 7:20:56 AM

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Of course, assuming it's alright with your Mistress.

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RE: just a question - 12/3/2007 7:26:57 AM

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I'm of the opinion that if they ask the question, then they want an honest answer. If you find her to be beautiful, then say so.

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RE: just a question - 12/3/2007 11:16:16 AM

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If I didn't think Mistress was the most beautiful creation on God's green earth, then there would be a serious problem! I don't think it's wrong to think your mistress is beautiful. It's only natural. Embrace the fact that a beautiful woman is your mistress. I love the fact that a goddess owns my ass (and everything else about me)!

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RE: just a question - 12/3/2007 11:59:24 AM

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I can't see how there could be anything wrong with it... Only in expressing it in a poor or disrespectful way.

All it is is another way you think highly of your mistress, really.

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RE: just a question - 12/3/2007 7:40:21 PM

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As long as you express it respectfully, i cannot see the problem. On the contrary:)
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RE: just a question - 12/4/2007 6:13:16 AM

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well since this came up my Mistress and i have talked about this at great length.

She is more than flattered that i feel this way.just last night when talking about it She des feel that it is appropiate for me to feel that way about Her.She has also stated last night that now realising that i do find Her beautiful that She is going to take more occasion to dress up.

as She reminded me,She understands the hesiation in response to Her asking me how She looked the other night now that She knows why and that as i can quote,"we are finding our ways with eachother."

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RE: just a question - 12/4/2007 6:44:56 AM

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Sorted!

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RE: just a question - 12/4/2007 10:48:10 AM

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I'm always flattered when my slaves tell me I'm beautiful. That said, they always say it in a respectful way.

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RE: just a question - 12/4/2007 10:58:06 AM

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If you are asked, but honest but be polite especially if the answer isn't positive.

For example, I often ask Fox's opinion on clothes I'm thinking of buying.

If he doesn't like it, he can say "I don't think that's the best color on you" or "that seems a bit big" or even "are you comfortable in that?"

But when he likes something he has no problem telling. When it really a wow moment, as apparently my new hair style on Saturday evening was, he usually is speechless and just stares for a few seconds.

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RE: just a question - 12/4/2007 6:32:11 PM

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To be honest OP, I might have taken your hesitation and your eventual answer entirely wrongly, to think that I had made a totally wrong choice and I looked bloody awful LOL! However, if I was confident in the outfit, unlikely that I would have asked in that way, though I would ask Master if it met with His approval. His eyes usually tell Me before His mouth catches up LOL!

I see absolutely nothing wrong with finding your Mistress beautiful and I am rather at a loss to think why you thought so. Is it because you and She are not sexual and so you think being attracted to her is some latent homosexuality in you or something? (I am entirely guessing here!). Because I don't think that is the case ... we can admire someone of either gender and not want to bed them! Besides, for Me, beauty is much more than skin and clothes ... it's the inner person that is beautiful to Me and over time we observe more of the inner self on the outside so the outer looks more and more beautiful to us too!

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RE: just a question - 12/5/2007 5:34:01 AM

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my Mistress and i talked about this again last night since quite a few things came up that we needed to talk about which is a good thing.

untill coming here tho my Lord and Mistress's house i have not been in a realtionship of any kind or involved in a M/s one for quite some time.so quite a few things took me by surprise when arriving here but it's all well and good.

we(Mistress and myself) are both quite involved with eachother on all levels and as She has said on many occasions She adores the female body.just a simple touch of Her hand on the side of my head sitting at Her feet is enough to bring me to submission and surrender.

after talking about this She now understands that as Her slave i do feel a "affection" for her quite a powerful one at that,and that is not something i have felt for anyone in awhile.i know know from Her and others from talking in here that it is allright to feel that and in Her words again from last night She is "very flattered" by how i feel and told me it is appropriate. so all of this has truly set my mind at ease being able to talk here and to be able to talk with Her as well

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