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RE: Why make a fantasy real life? - 12/5/2007 5:40:16 AM

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What makes you want to turn a fantasy into a real life fetish?

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RE: Why make a fantasy real life? - 12/5/2007 5:41:21 AM

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What makes you want to turn a fantasy into a real life fetish?

Hm... hate to be a word nerd, but generally speaking, fetishes cause fantasies, not the other way around. Very few people choose their fetishes (unless you're using the non-kink definition of fetish as being an object, which would be correct, but confusing in this context).

If you're asking why i want to "play out" a fantasy, it seems kind of self-explanatory to me... i have fantasies about things that i think would be erotic, and since i enjoy the erotic, i would like to do them, given the opportunity. Sure, i have some fantasies that would be illegal/fatal/defy the laws of physics, and those have to be kept as fantasies, but for everything else... why *not* do them? i can always come up with more fantasies if i find myself running low

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RE: Why make a fantasy real life? - 12/5/2007 7:25:46 AM

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Curiosity mostly. A case of "what if". How would I handle it? Would who and what I think I am actually come out in the reality of it? Could be a great eye opener.

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