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SubWanted08 -> RE: Semi-public task part 2! (1/10/2008 12:46:32 PM)
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On a first meet? I'm sure you don't get many meets with such demands.
Plus if doing sexual stuff in public is morally wrong to her, how do you expect her to feel sexy about it?
You would do better to not treat subs as cookie cutter cookies, but to get to know them as people, get into their minds, and take the time to learn what gets them aroused. Of course that takes a lot of time which you would have to account for to your vanilla wife.quote:
Not on a first meet of course, not even for a long time...I feel like you that you should get to know what makes each other tick. The deepest desires if possible but at some point, I would require some semi public acts because I enjoy them. I think that a sub who has developed a strong bond will do what you desire even if she is not so excited about it. It can be other things beside semi public acts but a request from a DOM that the SUB does not want to do can say volumes in loyalty and trust.
I do however believe that if she finds it immoral or beyond her safe limits, by all means step back and try to find some common ground for your SUB to make you happy.
I don't appreciate your comments outside the topic as to my vanilla relationship with my wife. As in life, it is much more complicated than that.
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