GoddessTeaze
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Joined: 10/14/2006 From: The Netherlands Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: DesFIP If I went to a public play venue and saw someone doing florentine flogging and said "ooh, that looks awesome, could you try that on me?" that would be bottoming. I wouldn't be submitting to his choice of what to do, I wouldn't be giving him any control. I would have negotiated for exactly what I was interested in, and specified nothing more. Submitting involves the emotions. It involves wanting to do things for him, wanting him to make decisions, wanting him to be pleased by my actions. The intent makes the difference. Thank you so much for answering Me. and spicybrains too I wish you a great day. Warm Greetingz GoddezzT`
< Message edited by GoddessTeaze -- 1/7/2008 11:09:40 PM >
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