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who needs a True anything? - 12/13/2007 12:15:44 PM

CliarSiofra

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I've been reading a lot of profiles and forums. there is a lot of mention of "wannabes, True Dom/subs...etc" and i know its to help filter out the trollers. But I find myself going, ok your definition is totally different than mine, so why not just say your searching for the Yin to your Yang in your BDSM relationship?

I never put that , or that i feel that i am. I don't think its necessary, I've seen a lot who do the same as well.

Yes I am i switch but i've made it clear to those i meet it there person that i choose to switch too. Not a moment. I have found my honesty has been really helpful in finding friend, and currently a submissive who i have been considering in my slow manner.

So I guess what I'm getting at is ha! I know whats true and thats my own philosophies, because of this I am finding happiness. I'm sure many of you are the same way. This is more of a WOOHOO we rock kinda post.

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RE: who needs a True anything? - 12/14/2007 9:07:16 PM

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In a dream, someone gave me a crystal. I asked what type of crystal it was, they said it is a crystal to warm my heart.
Sometimes I think that person was me.
Respectfully, LTP

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RE: who needs a True anything? - 12/14/2007 10:45:16 PM

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ORIGINAL: liketophoto

In a dream, someone gave me a crystal. I asked what type of crystal it was, they said it is a crystal to warm my heart.
Sometimes I think that person was me.
Respectfully, LTP

When you KNOW it was you, then you'll have made progress! Treat yourself as you would your best friend. You'd never say the kinds of things you say to yourself to your best friend. They'd be terrible hurt.

Master Fire

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RE: who needs a True anything? - 12/14/2007 11:52:51 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

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ORIGINAL: liketophoto

In a dream, someone gave me a crystal. I asked what type of crystal it was, they said it is a crystal to warm my heart.
Sometimes I think that person was me.
Respectfully, LTP

When you KNOW it was you, then you'll have made progress! Treat yourself as you would your best friend. You'd never say the kinds of things you say to yourself to your best friend. They'd be terrible hurt.

Master Fire

She's right i once wrote a poem about a night mare i had. i'll post it once i find it. but it was a realization i was my own tormenter. so it was a reversal to your dream. but just as revealing.

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RE: who needs a True anything? - 12/16/2007 11:52:28 AM

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I think when people say they want a "TRUE" anything, and that all the others are fakes and posers. That means that they're "Experienced" and "Wise"

Anyone who says that they're the only true dom/sub and everyone else is just fake MUST be real /sarcasm

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RE: who needs a True anything? - 12/16/2007 3:34:30 PM

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ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

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ORIGINAL: liketophoto

In a dream, someone gave me a crystal. I asked what type of crystal it was, they said it is a crystal to warm my heart.
Sometimes I think that person was me.
Respectfully, LTP

When you KNOW it was you, then you'll have made progress! Treat yourself as you would your best friend. You'd never say the kinds of things you say to yourself to your best friend. They'd be terrible hurt.

Master Fire

Great advice MFM.

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RE: who needs a True anything? - 12/25/2007 7:12:22 AM

tanna

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If I have to declare anything, it is that I am looking for the One who completes me. Declarations of 'true' only scare me off.

Read a profile on another site by a fellow who was 'looking for a true sub'. I actually chatted with him and was appalled at how he defined what a 'true' sub was. Even though I was disgusted by what he wanted, I'm sure it is possible that there is someone out there for him who can be what he wants. Obviously I wasn't willing or able to complete him and vice versa.

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RE: who needs a True anything? - 12/31/2007 6:12:10 PM

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