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RE: First Email - 12/15/2007 9:45:37 AM   
DomMeinCT


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Status: offline 		Nope.  Sometimes it's the funniest email I get all day.

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RE: First Email - 12/15/2007 9:49:04 AM   
Jeffff


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Jeff

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RE: First Email - 12/15/2007 9:56:31 AM   
CalifChick


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

If all of you bitches would get on your knees now...........it would save me alot of time

Thank You
The Managment

Ignore the thank you.....not very Domly


Awww, Jeff, you were soooo close.  You lost me at YOU bitches.  Now if you would have said MY bitch...

Cali


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RE: First Email - 12/15/2007 9:57:29 AM   
littlehumbledone


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quote:

ORIGINAL: temptedxdesires

Does it bother you to receive an email from a Dominant for the first time and in the email all it states in explicit details is what He wants to do to you?  Whatever happend to manners and first impressions :(


Not anymore, it did the first few hours I was here, and then I realised that if I was going to get my knickers in a twist over that, i'd end up permanantly knotted, so I just rewrote my profile and that works a treat, now I only hear from the Doms with a sense of humour and that suits me just fine, there's far too many doms on here with the serious stick up their arses.




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RE: First Email - 12/15/2007 10:26:18 AM   
intro2submissive


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Status: offline 		i feel you. but like luckyalbatross said, don't allow those people to effect you or your search.
good luck.

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RE: First Email - 12/15/2007 12:12:04 PM   
LadyHugs


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Status: offline 		Dear temptedxdesires, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
Ah, another victim of those who think Domination is the key to cute lassies like you and a robot who has nothing short of 'stupid' written on their forehead.
 
I get a lot of 'alleged' Dominants who must do these in a Spam sort of way; as I am a Dominant woman and get these same sort of E-mails.  I do have a laugh and tell them that I am not very good at submission--especially to them if they cann't read a profile and or treat women with respect--regardless if slave or Dominant.  I also ask them to remove my name of their spam list and then report it to collarme.com--there is in the mail function when it is open - to block, to reply, to report --- I hit the 'to report' button and do report them.
 
I do believe you can even go better than spam and report their vulgar mouth.
 
Just some thoughts.
 
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs
 
 

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RE: First Email - 12/15/2007 12:14:51 PM   
LordJDHamilton


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Status: offline 		I s this something new I havent received one before?

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RE: First Email - 12/15/2007 12:30:04 PM   
CalifChick


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LordJDHamilton

I s this something new I havent received one before?


JD, If you want one, just ask.  Subtle hinting is not allowed for this.

Cali


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RE: First Email - 12/15/2007 12:42:55 PM   
laurell3


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quote:

ORIGINAL: CalifChick

quote:

ORIGINAL: temptedxdesires

Does it bother you to receive an email from a Dominant for the first time and in the email all it states in explicit details is what He wants to do to you? 


Hell no, forward them to me!!!!!!!!

Cali



ROFL!

To the OP, from what I've read I'm a bit different than others in that it doesn't actually bother me if they state their sexual preferences up front.  I don't have a requirement that someone has to talk about vanilla type things first, as long as we talk about vanilla type things at some point and often.  I look at it like this. There are some pretty diverse kinks out there and it is an issue of compatibility as there are some things that might be important to others that I just am never going to do.  However, if the email presumes he and I are going to have sex that's different and yes, that's rude in my opinion.

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RE: First Email - 12/15/2007 12:46:50 PM   
carlie310


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff


Ignore the thank you.....not very Domly

At least it wasn't a sigh.

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RE: First Email - 12/15/2007 12:47:58 PM   
IrishMist


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LordJDHamilton

I s this something new I havent received one before?

I'll be more than happy to remedy that for you.



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RE: First Email - 12/15/2007 12:49:27 PM   
IrishMist


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quote:

ORIGINAL: carlie310

quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff


Ignore the thank you.....not very Domly

At least it wasn't a sigh.


LOL
I do think he let loose with half a growl though.

That's acceptable domly behavior; though a full growl would have been more so.



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RE: First Email - 12/15/2007 12:50:31 PM   
subtee


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Status: offline 		I don't welcome them but they're often hilarious (explicit warning):

"nice tits, I wanna bite that cunt and rape your ass" (really got this one);

Bwahahahahahahahahaha!

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RE: First Email - 12/15/2007 12:54:12 PM   
IrishMist


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quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy


quote:

ORIGINAL: RumpusParable

I'm with those who have expressed that it doesn't bother or upset them, rather it's a bit amusing and is actually helpful in ruling out a mismatch early on!  That and with some I do like to amuse myself over a couple emails once in a while; it can be fun to mess with their heads a little when you're taking a short break from work on the computer.


This is kind of funny....Not trying to pick on you, but there are many people who seem to share this common reaction when dealing with these types of people. How do you know that this is not exactly what they are seeking? And by "fucking with them" you are actually feeding the fire and by providing any type of a response that you are actually enforcing this type of behavior.

It says little about anyone who sends out this type of mail....It certainly doesn't say much about those who choose to respond to it.


I disagree. Most of the time, the responses I get back are so angry and hostile that it makes it even more funny. Especially when you look at the profiles of these dorks and they are so 'BIG' on being in control of themselves. Just think...my little response to them is enough to make them lose all that cool...........it's hilarious

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RE: First Email - 12/15/2007 12:56:37 PM   
Sexynmentalinkc


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quote:

ORIGINAL: subtee

I don't welcome them but they're often hilarious (explicit warning):

"nice tits, I wanna bite that cunt and rape your ass" (really got this one);

Bwahahahahahahahahaha!





Please stop sharing the emails I've sent you with others, m'kay?

*wink*


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RE: First Email - 12/15/2007 1:54:02 PM   
sexyred1


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quote:

ORIGINAL: subtee

I don't welcome them but they're often hilarious (explicit warning):

"nice tits, I wanna bite that cunt and rape your ass" (really got this one);

Bwahahahahahahahahaha!


Oh, I like that one!! I would do him in a minute.

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RE: First Email - 12/15/2007 2:54:51 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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Status: offline 		I got one along the lines of saying "tempting meat"..I had to wonder then if he was breaking out the BBQ sauce and chianti........I reluctantly turned this jewel down...BBQ sauce is a hard limit......Tempting

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RE: First Email - 12/15/2007 7:51:53 PM   
taintedgypsy


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

If all of you bitches would get on your knees now...........it would save me alot of time



Thank You
The Managment


Ignore the thank you.....not very Domly


LMFAO ... now if I do the on my knees thing will I get one of those lurid emails everyone is talking about?

Seriously my profile states if the contact is not respectful than it will be deleted and blocked ... and I do as a general rule ... There was one that I replied back to saying if that is the best you can manage you are of no use to me, if it was a porno I would have turned it off bored within minutes lol ... though I do keep one that was so well written and thought provocing that it deserved a reply of not interested but hell you have a great mind and penmanship to go with it lol.
to each their own ... what ever rocks your boat but do not get upset over a message just exercise your right to delete and block lol.

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RE: First Email - 12/15/2007 8:58:30 PM   
adoracat


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

If all of you bitches would get on your knees now...........it would save me alot of time



Thank You
The Managment


Ignore the thank you.....not very Domly


sorry, oh DomlyDom,  nerve damage and arthritis, i dont even get on my knees for Daddy.

kitten, giggling

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RE: First Email - 12/16/2007 4:49:14 AM   
juliaoceania


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quote:

ORIGINAL: temptedxdesires

Does it bother you to receive an email from a Dominant for the first time and in the email all it states in explicit details is what He wants to do to you?  Whatever happend to manners and first impressions :(


It does not bother me, but it does not turn me on either.

If I were looking it would be a turn off for me.


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