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RE: Am I Abnormal?? - 12/16/2007 8:25:45 PM

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Normal is only a setting on a washing machine.
You are who you are...relax and enjoy .

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RE: Am I Abnormal?? - 12/16/2007 8:32:31 PM

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross
Non comformity can be just as much a sign of following the herd as comformity is.

but I like the NC herd better

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RE: Am I Abnormal?? - 12/16/2007 8:35:11 PM

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i will have to agree with most of the group here... i was in the same position summerblossom and i feel exactly like you do. Please dont be misled by what others do, as it can send you on a real spin out.. it is totally up to you and your parter of how you practice your lifestyle... While you can experience what others think and want to do and what limitations they have, every entity as individuals has its own way of practice that only the parters can experience as for themselves.. Its always great to test each others limits only to the extent that you can feel comfortable with. Everyone can have there own theory of which not necessarily W/we all can agree on.. W/we have to respect without criticizing each others ways but W/we are not forced to follow them.. Have fun girl..

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RE: Am I Abnormal?? - 12/16/2007 11:07:33 PM

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

I am normal......not average .....but normal..:).......so you must be normal too.....unless that offends you.:)

Jeff

*scritches off the tape covering the AB in front of the NORMAL on jefffffffffff's nametag*

there! fixed that for ya!

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RE: Am I Abnormal?? - 12/16/2007 11:12:47 PM

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

I am normal......not average .....but normal..:).......so you must be normal too.....unless that offends you.:)

Jeff

Jeff you honestly believe you're "normal"? hahahaha....

I don't think any of us would fit any standard definition of "normal", I doubt we would want to.

Op I agree with what everyone else has said, figure out what it is you want, embrace it, and find someone that is compatible with that.

I have no idea what a "natural submissive" is, however, I will tell you that I am quite assertive as a person which is fairly obvious here. However, it doesn't effect my ability to submit. With the right person I don't think you may respond in the way you think you will if you really desire to submit to them.

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RE: Am I Abnormal?? - 12/16/2007 11:12:48 PM

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i only know two things about normal....One's already been stated here (the washing machine thing)...The other is it's a town by Bloomington......oooooohhhhhh....It gives me a great idea!! if i take a picture of myself infront of a sign saying Normal doesn't that give me the seal of approval...

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RE: Am I Abnormal?? - 12/17/2007 5:03:34 AM

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ORIGINAL: summerblossom

I am a switch but enjoy being submissive at times but I am starting to think that maybe I would not make a good submissive because of these reasons. In my daily life I guess you could say I am a bit selfish. I love to be spoiled, love to be taken out, cuddled and adored. I also love to be the center of attention and being the leader of my group. Sexually I am open minded and have alot of fetishes and desires but prefer to receive than to give. In fact alot of things I read other submissives love doing, I do not love doing those things. I do not agree that all women are naturally submissive and that all men are naturally dominant whether they care to admit it or not.

Emotionally I love to give and share more than most people I have met....and I believe that if I was submitting to someone I would be great unless I was offended in some way (big way only) and that my dominant side would come out (I'm a switch) and there would be no turning back if that happened. So I'm wondering what everyone else thought.

summer, I'm a lot like this although I identify as a submissive. The difference, perhaps, is that I take a tremendous amount of pleasure in submitting, in the accomplishment of it. When I am doing things I don't love doing, it reminds me that I am the sub, and being reminded of my place in the dynamic gives me great satisfaction. Submitting is not easy for me but it is what I love doing. Perhaps that is the difference - doing or not doing.

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RE: Am I Abnormal?? - 12/17/2007 5:20:20 AM

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Honestly, Gorean forums are not the place to figure out if you are normal. *jk*

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RE: Am I Abnormal?? - 12/17/2007 6:33:17 AM

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I am me. I don't play roles. My Alt profile says "Role: Not Applicable." CollarMe doesn't have that option, so I chose "Dominant" because it was closest. I've Topped women, and the few Dommes I have been with often let me make the vanilla decisions because they thought I was good at that kind of thing.

I just got back from the ClubFem Christmas Party in Houston. It's a well-known Femdom-malesub organization. One of the men there was immobilized in plastic wrap, then decorated as a Christmas tree. That's abnormal by vanilla standards. The Lady who invited me paid my entry fee. That's abnormal by BDSM standards. Did either of us care? Hell, no. I had paid for a plane ticket and bought dinner, and it was a way she could demonstrate that she was glad I had come.

I am interested in people because of their honesty, compassion and creativity -- not their "role." People who think conforming to a role is more important than being human might be adults, but they are still playing games, and they can take two twenty-sided dice and call me in the morning. I am busy, and I only have time for someone who is interested in exploring real life.

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RE: Am I Abnormal?? - 12/17/2007 6:43:08 AM

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If what Jeff said makes sense then you are on the wrong site.

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RE: Am I Abnormal?? - 12/17/2007 10:02:46 AM

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Just because someone is a slave does not mean they are submissive in their desires all the time. Personally i have a lot of times that i want to do things to another person that are VERY unsubmissive. But i still consider myself a slave becuase that is who i feel i am in my heart.

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