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How to tie a Man - 12/18/2007 9:30:22 AM   
Termyn8or


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I have a bit of a fantasy here and I am wondering just how to implement it.

I want to be restrained in a way that I can still fuck. Basically a Woman to tie me in such a way the she can remove my CB and have her way with me. Mind you I am normally dominant, but I need times like this sometimes. (once a month would be good)

In this situation, the deal is I don't get released until she is satisfied. I must be restrained in a way that she can tease me, and I can't do a thing about it, but I need enough freedom to actually fuck, on top if possible.

Now I am figuring the wrists chained to the neck, with other features. That wouldn't be enough. I need to know that I am "had", that there is no way out. That she is going to get what she wants even on top. Restrained so, of course she would have to put the rubber on me.

I corresponded with a guy who said he was locked in a CB for five years, of course I found that hard to believe. With further message though, he revealed that he got out every week for some great sex. Now that makes a little more sense, but he hasn't touched himself for five yerars. She takes care of that.

The way he described it is that his hands were tied to his neck, or chained, whatever. This allowed him to have sex, actually on top, but be unable to reach down. The deal was when the CB is off, the restraint is on. Never touch that thing.

I could see something like this in a switch relationship. I could be dominant as hell, but she would know that she owns a piece of me. I give that to her and she gives me her submission. And I don't want anyone to lick my boots. I am just not like that.

I know such a relationship is a pipe dream, but really the question here is more mechanical. What would be the best way to restrain a male so he can still have intercourse, and if he doesn't want to, still can be forced to ? That would be a kickass night.

Basically the five year guy had it good, I am sure it will entail some sort of neck to wrist connection. But what of the rest ? Obviously he must be prevented from kicking or running away. If there is a gag involved that is not lockable, I guess fist mitts would be in order, but I have that, not a problem.

I'm thinking some cables or ropes, where she could tighten the tether until he is spread eagle, sortof, on the bed. Then it is up to her to allow him enough freedom. As the CB comes off though, he is not allowed to touch. She will have to clean it. It is probably going to look like a baby's arm holding an apple, but at all times he cannot touch it.

Before ,,,,,,,, a long long time ago, I was not out, I was not really aware, but we found a girl who wanted to be gangraped. We met, it was consentual, even though I really didn't know what that meant at the time. She seemed to enjoy struggling against her bonds, and two dicks. Of course one was in her mouth. Mine.

The three of us had our way, and she loved every minute of it. The last guy to screw her untied her legs because he wanted her to wrap them around him. Later (it was about one in the morning) we found a 2:30 bar and went for some drinks. Damn, raped about six times and she was happier than sheepshit !

So for me this is a once in a while thing, but what I want is to be forced to have sex. Of course any applicants for that must agree to put the rubber on (me I guess). But I want it so I have no choice in the matter. And I don't mean like prison.

I mean tie me up as tight as need be and stimulate me, then mount me, like an animal. Don't take no for an answer.

OK, this is a fantasy, but I might get someone to do it someday. But just how should the bondage be ? Tie what to what ? Any ideas ?

T
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RE: How to tie a Man - 12/18/2007 10:48:33 AM   
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Im gonna have to go and think about that Termynator:) it may take me a while and there are no guarantees, but I will deeply ermmmm ponder, yes ponder your  thoughts.
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RE: How to tie a Man - 12/18/2007 10:57:07 AM   
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Status: offline 		Its a very interesting concept,certainly the idea of forced sex is one thats always appealed to me,for someone to have that control over you for 5 yrs would be the most amazing thing...bring it on,thats what i say!!!!

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RE: How to tie a Man - 12/18/2007 11:26:22 AM   
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Status: offline 		I am a switch also, so I can imagine all kinds of possibilities.  In addition to being fully restrained so the dom has 100% contol, here are a few options. 
1. Leather Locking / Padded fist mitts sounds fun. 
2. Cuffs to the headboard and footboard with enough slack to allow her on top or to slide under would be great also. 

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RE: How to tie a Man - 12/18/2007 1:47:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		Maybe a motorized contraption of some sort? Here are a couple of places that might generate ideas:

http://www.extremerestraints.com/fucking-machines_48/
http://captivepleasures.com/MACHINE-FURNITURE%20PAGE.jpg

I've also seem some things done with glide rocker ottomans somewhere on the net - generally to pump a dildo in and out of a woman but the concept might be adapted.

You might also check out www.houseofgord.com. Gord's the most creative bondager I've seen on the net. If he hasn't already done something similar, you might be able to get in contact with him for ideas.

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RE: How to tie a Man - 12/25/2007 5:39:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		No Lucy, I am geting hot too.

How about a good old fashion "Spread Eagle" to the bed....Wrists and Ankles tied to the bed. As for an extra added pleasure for the LADY, how about if she uses a Cock Harness on you too. This way she gets pleasure in 2 ways.

It was done to me years ago, those MADAM just had sex with the Penis Gag. She enjoyed every minute of it, even though I had my Cock Harness on, and pleased her.

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RE: How to tie a Man - 12/26/2007 12:49:01 AM   
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Status: offline 		I could see suspension cuffs working really well for this not so much to hang from but to grip with. Perhaps chained to the ceiling over the bed with your ankles cuffed to the headboard (or footboard).

If you have a weight bench kicking around theres lots of possibilities for restraint with free hip motion there.

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RE: How to tie a Man - 12/26/2007 12:14:41 PM   
Lucylastic


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Status: offline 		Im liking the suspension from above the bed altho I would much prefer some sort of harness or sling to take the body of weight and some sort of pulley system to lower and or raise the top half close for penetration.....the intricacies of such tho is too much for me to think about now, grins Im just enjoying the fantasy...being able to tease while underneath, ability to move around and concentrate on where ever I wish.... then lower...perhaps a pillow or two to raise the hips  ...mmmmmm
I also like the thought of him being cuffed to a doorway, legs only slightly apart, so I can get thru the doorway , access to front and back etc,  and depending on height, well there is always foom for bending over, in front...
but thats all I have for now,
Lucy
OOOOh there is a toy/tool out there called Rachels Love Web, not as asthetically pleasing as  rope bondage, and a lot easier, its basically a nylon webbing  web, with velcro cuffs that have a wrap around strap to attach you to any point of the web. its great for long term bondage, overnight, as both can sleep  on the bed quite comfortably and it fits any size bed. Plus you can change positions for comfort or uncomfort:)  within seconds. http://www.pleasureidea.com/rachels-love-web-p-339.html
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RE: How to tie a Man - 12/26/2007 2:29:06 PM   
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RE: How to tie a Man - 12/26/2007 3:53:01 PM   
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Status: offline 		Something like a sirik can be custom fitted to any size and restrictions.http://www.ringofsteel.net/images/sirik-joyce.jpg

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RE: How to tie a Man - 12/26/2007 11:10:27 PM   
Termyn8or


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Status: offline 		Best you can do Vad ? Hell it looks like she can go to the bathroom herself and everything, even cook dinner. (hopefully not at the same time)

Joking, but I am starting to think that one day we are going to have to talk about some really serious shit. Time will tell.

T

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RE: How to tie a Man - 12/27/2007 5:45:45 AM   
VadFarkas


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Status: offline 		hahaha T,
I just made a sirik last night and put it on eBay. As an after thought, because of reading your post, I added that "it allows some movement and is not intended to immobilize".
You got some scary stuff in your head and I'm worried about talkin' serious shit with you.

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RE: How to tie a Man - 12/29/2007 9:22:53 AM   
Termyn8or


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Status: offline 		LOL Vad.

When we get to the serious shit you can always decline. I might call you a name or two, like wimp or something, but I'll try to be nice.

Actually my ideas do go way out there, to the point where you might not be afraid to go, but may be unable to go. Seen the bodycage, and I know there are head cages. What about a full body cage that contains all the appendages ? The wearer cannot move an inch.

If you can make that cock cage of yours, you can make it, but I realize that there is alot to it, just too much. It's a nice fantasy but there is not much future in it. Once the process was all figured out it would still probably take months of work. And anything like that would require much measurement, of course each would have to be custom made.

Even if you could get one done in a month, realistically you would have to charge a whole lot of money for it. I understand.

Your genre (ok you can gloat a bit because as of now one person has said that you created a genre) seems to have a heavy mix of form. Functional yes, but you try to achieve a certain look, and I must admit it is pretty good. But what I mean by that statement is your creations, while functional, are intended to be decorative as well.

Take the case of your latest collar. I think it's cool as hell and if I had a Woman I was hooked up with she would be wearing one now. We would probably fiy over there and have it welded on her. (got any asbestos ?)

But would you restrain someone with it ? Any struggling and the pressure points created by it's very design are likely to leave marks and could possibly cause injury. Of course anything can, but anything around the neck that is really used for restraint needs to distribute the force as equally as possible. I think this true of almost any restraint.

But now mixing that collar with leather................

OK, I am getting too far off the wall here. I go now. Maybe go eat something, or drink, whichever.

Be well.

T

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RE: How to tie a Man - 12/29/2007 6:53:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		It would have to be a really sturdy, non-escapable chasity device to keep me for even a month...

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RE: How to tie a Man - 1/3/2008 8:53:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		Oooh what a fun thread. What lovely fantasies you have.

I saw the title and was almost hopeful for a thread about boy-specific shibari but maybe I'll have to bring that one up myself.

Speaking of, instead of attaching the arms to the neck, they could be attached wrist-to-elbow behind the back. There are arm harnesses or just basic rope ties to accomplish this. Suspension is a good idea also hmmm. As for the legs, spreader bars and ankle cuffs aren't just for girls! Those could be attached in a loose - limiting but not completely restricting hogtie, I suppose.

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RE: How to tie a Man - 1/3/2008 9:10:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		There are MANY great ideas here.   I have a number to add, but will choose ONE based on your specific requests.




YOU kneeling with a rope tied tightly around your balls and your wrists cuffed to your ankles. 

Her kneeling before you to allow doggy style as she pleases, but have the rope to balls on a series of pullies for control.    

You won't be able to achieve penetration unless she guides it in and you won't be able to stay in unless she allows you to do so.

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RE: How to tie a Man - 1/3/2008 9:38:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		This is probably my favorite kink (like everyone else!) to fantasize about.  I've had some success with a portable rack that someone made me once.  Heavy leather cuffs were fastened to a rope that had a device- sort of like a rachet- that would keep the rope in place once it was pulled as tight as you wanted it.  (For mountain climibing perhaps??)  I put the person in it (on the floor) and then I climbed on top.  I could sit on his face, guide him inside of me, whatever I felt like.  It was a lot of fun, but if I did it today I would put some kind of padding under it.  The carpeting didn't have much padding under it.  Pillows just kept sliding out of place.
The rack could be configured in a square (spread eagle) or a triangle with the arms at the top of the T.  The triangle worked the best.
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RE: How to tie a Man - 1/3/2008 9:40:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		Keep the ideas coming!  I want to check this thread in the morning when I get up!
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RE: How to tie a Man - 1/3/2008 10:13:59 PM   
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Status: offline 		Dear MstrssScarlet, That sounds pretty neat. I LOVE Spread Eagle, and miss it a lot. Thank you so much for refreshing my Fond Memories.   LOL

Sincerly, Sub BalletBob

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RE: How to tie a Man - 1/3/2008 10:19:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		Wrists to Elbows? I never done that one...YET! I like the Nipple Clamps tied to Ankle Straps too. I almost forgot that neat trick.

Welcome to the group Bittermoonlight. I wish you loasds of luck, and Bondage Fun !

Sincerly, Sub BalletBob



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