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Is it common to be very tight after bouts of no sex for... - 12/22/2007 11:45:22 PM

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I know for myself I can tighten up a whole bunch, after a long time no sex, I'm talking about like a month or two of no penitration of any kind. Today it was a bit painful to finally have sex when he slid in so I knew I must of been very,very tight, and he confirmed it after we'd come down from the play and had some discussion about it.

Why would someone who's not a recent newbie to sex* I haven't been a virgin since I was 14* get so tight after a long hiatus, and I assume it's a bit painful cause the vagina is streatching out, apon final entry of something?

I enjoy being tight for him, if it's been forever and I know I am tight I'll try to avoid use of dildo's to save that just for him:)

RE: Is it common to be very tight after bouts of no sex... - 12/22/2007 11:49:23 PM

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well I think that if they werent made that way, there would be a lot of problems after having babies smailes

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RE: Is it common to be very tight after bouts of no sex... - 12/22/2007 11:51:40 PM

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I think so too Rush.

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RE: Is it common to be very tight after bouts of no sex... - 12/22/2007 11:53:39 PM

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perfectly common for that to happen. Even the anus will get tight after periods of no penetration. Pregnancy will loosen that up, due to dilation, and extreme pushing of the labia, but if you exercise and don't do anything that would stretch it, it will go back to a more tight state. The beauty of skin is its flexiblity. Another thing that helps is strengthening the PC muscles as well. Those are the muscles that can grib a man when he's inside you, as well as help cut off urine flow.

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RE: Is it common to be very tight after bouts of no sex... - 12/23/2007 10:30:41 AM

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I was one of those blessed with the return to a "natural state" without exercise or anything special. I don't find it painful though, just incredibly snug and warm and wet and yummy and... uhhhhh, I digress.

I have friends who complain about the opposite... no matter what they do, it's not the same as it was before. I just smile kind of a smug little smile to myself.

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RE: Is it common to be very tight after bouts of no sex... - 12/23/2007 10:48:16 AM

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hehe calif, Sex is (or can be) painful for me after a long hiatus, and I remain sore and tender for several days like 2 or 3. But I have always been that way.

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RE: Is it common to be very tight after bouts of no sex... - 12/23/2007 11:45:40 AM

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I ended up tighter after my pregnancy, and I have always been small. But yes, I tighten up when there are periods of no sex. Sir is gone 2 weeks at a time and there is a noticeable difference in that time and usually some pain involved with that as well.

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RE: Is it common to be very tight after bouts of no sex... - 12/23/2007 11:49:18 AM

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Tight? Tight?
Hell yeah!
After two weeks with no sex my balls feel like they're going to explode!

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RE: Is it common to be very tight after bouts of no sex... - 12/23/2007 11:49:49 AM

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I have three words - do them every day at least once a day!
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RE: Is it common to be very tight after bouts of no sex... - 12/23/2007 11:59:05 AM

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Tight ?..... i should say so, if i dont have sex for a few weeks i stop taking her to dinner

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RE: Is it common to be very tight after bouts of no sex... - 12/23/2007 12:35:11 PM

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Phoenix has had this problem. It is natural, so don't worry about that. We know a girl who use to be into fisting, but after awhile of her not doing it anymore, she tightened right back up again, and it can be painful.

After my ex had her child, she had a lot of pain, and gave up sex for almost a year. When she went to the doctor he told her that when she was having sex, it was using mussels that normally we not being used, because of her lack of sex. His advice was no less than sex once a week, and the pain would eventually work itself out.

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RE: Is it common to be very tight after bouts of no sex... - 12/23/2007 1:21:49 PM

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Yes.............my wife says if I go very long without sex I become very tight with the checkbook and won't allow her any extras.........

I don't care who you are that was funny right there........

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RE: Is it common to be very tight after bouts of no sex... - 12/23/2007 2:07:20 PM

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Tight? Yes, going without for a while, and I swear my hymen grows back. Blood with penetration and all.
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RE: Is it common to be very tight after bouts of no sex... - 12/23/2007 2:44:21 PM

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I just love a tight hole.

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RE: Is it common to be very tight after bouts of no sex... - 12/23/2007 2:46:25 PM

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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

Tight ?..... i should say so, if i dont have sex for a few weeks i stop taking her to dinner

LOL she should make you pay for dinner and only allow you eggs for that statement Ps!

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RE: Is it common to be very tight after bouts of no sex... - 12/23/2007 3:40:45 PM

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quote:

Is it common to be very tight after bouts of no sex for long periods of time?

I wouldn't know.

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RE: Is it common to be very tight after bouts of no sex... - 12/23/2007 4:30:29 PM

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ORIGINAL: popeye1250

Tight? Tight?
Hell yeah!
After two weeks with no sex my balls feel like they're going to explode!

lol at popeye...

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RE: Is it common to be very tight after bouts of no sex... - 12/23/2007 11:11:17 PM

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ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

I have three words - do them every day at least once a day!
Pelvic Floor Exercises.

the.dark.

OMG, I would probably rip someone's dick off! Uhhh, don't need to be any tighter or any more toned. Now if the rest of my body would just follow suit...

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RE: Is it common to be very tight after bouts of no sex... - 12/24/2007 12:27:53 AM

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yes, except if the lack of sex was the mans idea. Then I'd say you have no right to stop treating her to the things like dinner.

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Tight ?..... i should say so, if i dont have sex for a few weeks i stop taking her to dinner

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RE: Is it common to be very tight after bouts of no sex... - 12/24/2007 12:32:42 AM

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I have three words - do them every day at least once a day!
Pelvic Floor Exercises.

the.dark.

My doc says that's for tightening the muscles...um, no thanks. A few weeks of that and it might just cut his dick off. There's a reason my Sir calls me his eternal virgin.

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